working with yellow ray

[Ens Entium]

Both of those examples are orange-ray (which supports yellow-ray efforts):
Anxieties related to ability (social or not)
How you see yourself (social situations or not).

Yellow-ray involves the actual interactions within the social structure, including the interpretation and use of the social complex.

Then do you know of a question or an idea (diagnostic) that distinguishes "the actual interactions" from the personal issues around them and from how we see ourselves in relation to them?