04-18-2022, 09:08 PM
Thank you so much for your sharing and advice Dtris, it's much appreciated.
Ah well I have my good days and my bad days, some days I'm able to look to the future, enjoy the present a little more as I realise she's not gone forever and I'll have much opportunity to speak with her or see her again if this is what we both want. Then on other days I feel every "negative" emotion going, I can really relate to the mixed emotions you've experienced.
Talking to her does really help, it's nice that we can do this and I'm glad to hear you've found ways to cope and that you still feel your mom's presence. Just allowing ourselves to feel whatever is necessary is a pleasant reminder, it's easy to get caught up with trying to control things when really this is the time to be gentle.
This was a really valuable offering you've given and my condolences go out to you too, I feel a deep resonance with your message.
Ah well I have my good days and my bad days, some days I'm able to look to the future, enjoy the present a little more as I realise she's not gone forever and I'll have much opportunity to speak with her or see her again if this is what we both want. Then on other days I feel every "negative" emotion going, I can really relate to the mixed emotions you've experienced.
Talking to her does really help, it's nice that we can do this and I'm glad to hear you've found ways to cope and that you still feel your mom's presence. Just allowing ourselves to feel whatever is necessary is a pleasant reminder, it's easy to get caught up with trying to control things when really this is the time to be gentle.
This was a really valuable offering you've given and my condolences go out to you too, I feel a deep resonance with your message.