03-30-2022, 12:52 PM
(This post was last modified: 03-30-2022, 12:53 PM by sillypumpkins.)
(03-30-2022, 12:37 PM)LeiwoUnion Wrote: It is truly a gift when someone calls us selfish, judgemental, stupid, or whatever as it gives us an extremely easy point of self reflection and contemplation, especially if there was emotion involved. A hardmode is when someone calls us nice, hardworking, beautiful etc. and then contemplating those emotions accompanying that exchange.
Lol this reminds me.... I was requesting relationship advice from a friend a few weeks ago. He pointed out to me (and in a sense, judged me) that I have a tendency to be extremely selfish, while also being extremely codependent.
Yeah.... it kinda stung to hear that, but ultimately it gave me an excellent reference point to reflect on. In that way, hearing and taking in that judgement enriches my own experience here on earth!