04-30-2021, 04:47 PM
(04-30-2021, 03:37 PM)Patrick Wrote: I think, after having forgiven them, we can still work against their plans. It's like forgiving someone who is going to prison. They are still going to prison even after you have forgiven. We still need to protect ourselves against STS machinations and handle the situations that come up with compassionate-wisdom. All of that does not prevent forgiveness from being given in my opinion.
We are saying: "Ok bad guys, I am forgiving you now but I am not playing your games anymore".
So we are releasing our hold on our feelings of victimhood and reclaiming our powers by forgiving.
Seems like a wise and compassionate thing to do.
This balance has some fine nuances, that are quite hard to navigate without getting distorted. For example, in this situation too much green can lead one into sadness/sorrow/pity and too much blue can lead into arrogance/superiority/schadenfreude. Because it is about true color green-blue center balance, these nuances can be extremely hard to notice, so subtle they can be. Try it, I bet many aren't as purely forgiving as it on a first glance might seem.