How do you cultivate unconditional love?

[Ohr Ein Sof]

Cultivate is a good word.

We cultivate soil before we plant seeds.

In this case though pre-veil we already had unconditional love - because we knew unity was truth, and could see beyond the masks.

So perhaps it’s not about learning anything new, but unlearning what separates us from the truth we already carry/carried.

Pulling up weeds, the knowledge of good and evil was metaphorically a plant in the garden.

It too started from a seed that was allowed to grow. Take root. Metaphorically this is what removed us from the loving unity of Eden. So to go back, now with our hard won wisdom we pull that plant.

Cultivate the soil and pull up weeds of judgment.

We judge otherselves because in fear or pain we assumed they are different, their actions out of context are so foreign.

We see part of their story and push them away(judge) verses embrace(accept/love) because we are ignorant of their entire path.

The more you hear people’s stories, the nitty gritty, the more you’ll find people’s lives took them for the most part, one event giving way to the next, to the next. Trauma building, reactions from pain/fear leading to the next “choice”.

The more you open to hearing people’s darkest parts the more you can see how a beautiful divine spark could step into any life and be distorted into which ever human face you gaze upon. Compassion is easy then.

At that point the more cold and cruel, it just means divine spark has had a tremendously difficult trip though time.

All trips are difficult. So one could remove judgements in consiousness or perhaps get to really know people.

I have been blessed that people tell me their darkness, strangers even, I believe it’s just because I am open, im told they know I won’t judge.

If you can muster that nonjudgment through compassion I highly recommend the experience of then just engaging in conversations most avoid. Listening to things they fear to tell others will reveal their beauty.

It’s easy to love anyone when you know their true path, then it becomes automatic to know even those you haven’t heard their storey have the same within them.

We litterally are all one. This pure divinity put through catylist life after life to form distortion that would cause infinite variation.

The way back is using catylist to erase those distortions, seeing through the distortions erasing our judgements about them, returns us to unconditional love, thats is a step towards reunion.

Sorry for the ramble.
I wanted to reply earlier but with so much to say I couldn’t decide which to share. You got a mish mash.

Good luck on your quest, it’s a great subject to work on.

I absolutely find your analogy of cultivating the soil to what finally enters us into the realm of unconditional love. In my mind no wiser words could be said. As unconditional love cannot happen until we cultivate our gardens and ready them for the planting of these most precious seeds. Thank you for this beautiful wisdom filled reply. It has so much lovely value.