02-12-2021, 02:21 PM
(02-12-2021, 01:58 PM)Glow Wrote: I have a client that owes me several hundred dollars. She has money and it’s weird she isn’t paying. I let it bother me last Saturday all day feeling “taunted”, Saturday afternoon I realized she was not in fact standing in front of me enjoying me wondering about the money.
I infact was ruining my own day. Self enslavement. How silly, but I am grateful yet again I could recognize it, like you have regarding the mask humiliation link and just stop letting my mind perpetuate an experience.
Yep that is what we always do, isn' t it? I am very good at that also. My own worst enemy.
That old saying comes to mind "we are not responsible for the other persons behavior, only for our own reactions to them"
And we actually learn a lot more from those situations, than when we sit in a comfy chair and have a chat with a lovely friend.
Though I still prefer the lovely chats and the lovely people, haha.
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