Other-selves and projection

[Louisabell]

Lazy is sort of a shame word, expressing shame, or encouraging one to feel shame.

I honestly never thought of that! Thankyou for bringing it to my attention Glow. Sorry if I made anyone feel uncomfortable by using that word.

Personally, one of my favourite past-times is lazing about, so I've never had any qualms calling myself lazy (at times). But yes, people often use the word in derogatory ways. Yet I have found that when I am biased towards laziness, I can find the most ingenious ways to be more efficient or streamline the systems in my life. I guess I was projecting my own propensity to try to see the virtue in all things... and maybe came across as too harsh as a result.