While I don't have a twin and am generally pretty chill making music with my bros, I have a lot of band experience and I think I can see what's going on here.
This comes up sometimes with my one musical partner who is very driven but without "forward momentum" he gets frustrated and feels stagnant very quickly.
Obviously, for him a feeling of progress is important and when our band is low in activities he often wants to start new projects or "lets just record an album".
I am a little more chill about things so I don't get so stressed about that stuff, but I very much get when you feel you have potential you're not tapping in to it can get very frustrating.
However, from the perspective of a musician, I have to ask the question, soooo why haven't you been able to pull it together?
Is that something you are even interested in?
Clarifying for yourself what you actually want out of the situation might help to understand the difference in perspective.
This comes up sometimes with my one musical partner who is very driven but without "forward momentum" he gets frustrated and feels stagnant very quickly.
Obviously, for him a feeling of progress is important and when our band is low in activities he often wants to start new projects or "lets just record an album".
I am a little more chill about things so I don't get so stressed about that stuff, but I very much get when you feel you have potential you're not tapping in to it can get very frustrating.
However, from the perspective of a musician, I have to ask the question, soooo why haven't you been able to pull it together?
Is that something you are even interested in?
Clarifying for yourself what you actually want out of the situation might help to understand the difference in perspective.
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