Throat Chakra Blockage?

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"...find love within truth..."

That seems obvious one might say.  Yet it is one of the things that seriously eludes me.  It is related with Throat Chakra balancing.  There is love in the moment and so there is love in that kind of truth as well.

Part of my defensive lying is to prevent hurting others.  This attitude lacks wisdom.

Which form does this wisdom take in order to find love in truth in this kind of catalyst ?

101.8 Questioner: Thank you. Could Ra give information on any way that we could give information to Greta Woodrew as to how to alleviate her present condition of swelling?

Ra: I am Ra. We may only suggest that the honor of propinquity to light carries with it the Law of Responsibility. The duty to refrain from contumely, discord, and all things which, when unresolved within, make way for workings lies before the instrument of which you speak. This entity may, if it is desired by the scribe, share our comments upon the working of the latter entity.

The entity which is given constant and unremitting approval by those surrounding it suffers from the loss of the mirroring effect of those which reflect truthfully rather than unquestioningly. This is not a suggestion to reinstate judgment but merely a suggestion for all those supporting instruments; that is, support, be harmonious, share in love, joy, and thanksgiving, but find love within truth, for each instrument benefits from this support more than from the total admiration which overcomes discrimination.

What kind of things are you lying about to spare others?

I have found often when people do this thinking they are sparing another’s feelings but it leaks out in other ways. Dishonesty is a lack of intimacy so in close relationships that is one way it could leak into the relationship in a still destructive manner. Resentment or closing off parts of self from another are other ways.

Of course there are things that are hurtful and are sort of superficial so need not be let lose on the otherself because it’s really about the one lying not the one being lied too.

I wonder if you have tried balancing these kind of things so you aren’t feeling stuck between lying or hurting someone.

Sorry I’m not trying to pry if you’d rather not. I just remember carrying lies. It doesn’t feel good.

I lied as a kid (6 years old) In an attempt to feel less shame about my life and childhood family. It felt great to relieve that shame and feeling of being unloved in the moment but holy hell it took on a life of its own.

Unfortunately once the hole was dug(the lie) I couldn’t get out of it, and it spiraled. It was a really impactful catylist.

As a result I have an extreme aversion to lying and will only do so for safety reason, generally an otherselvrs safety.

I might or might not be able to help you think your way through things so you do not have to. No promises but I’m willing to try.

Of course with no context I might be stepping blindly and be completely unhelpful.

Also if the lie to spare another’s feelings are judgements of them, just opening the heart more in understanding usually will solve that on its own. That’s my go to.

Sorry if this came off rude or intrusive. Feel like this is a should I shouldn’t I comment but it is a blue ray thread so here it goes.