07-01-2020, 07:15 AM
(06-17-2020, 10:51 AM)dexter101 Wrote: i read that it means to simply turn away and avoid a fight but sometimes in life you can't avoid a fight etc..you know how it goes
i would really know what you guys think of this?
i personally to put it mildy disagree with this. any thoughts on this? i am reminded of what montalk wrote on his website.
he says:
What about Service-to-All?
This concept was invented by those who misinterpret STS and STO as meaning predator and prey. They view “Service-to-All” or STA as being the transcendent, balanced, and neutral alternative to that dichotomy. STA is based on the misconception that Service to Others means “serving only others, while ignoring self,” such as being a doormat or ascetic who is weak and neglectful of his or her own well-being. By neglecting yourself, you handicap your future ability to do good, thereby decreasing your total positive impact and increasing imbalance, which is STS.
Properly defined, STO means serving self through serving others in a balanced way that is of maximum spiritual benefit to all. It means being neither predator nor prey. It does not mean being a doormat, nor neglecting personal well-being to the point of interfering with one’s future ability to serve, which is a shortsighted form of martyrdom. So what some define as STA is already the correct definition of STO, therefore the term STA is unnecessary. What they call STO is actually the prey component of the STS predator-prey dynamic. Therefore, instead of [STA (neutral transcendent) | STO (prey) | STS (predator)] it should be [STO (neutral transcendent) | STS (prey vs. predator)].
The difficulty with treading the STO path is that it involves maximization of energy balance and freewill in a system, and supporting this balance requires an intelligent exercise of freewill to consistently hit the sweet spot for any given situation. To balance a broomstick is hard, while letting it fall is easy. Being STS is easy because no genuine spiritual intelligence is needed to be a passive lump being preyed upon, or to give into reactive behavior and let yourself fall under Matrix influences into animalistic or demonic states.
my question simply is...how do you hit the sweet spot for any given situation. its not like there are any instruction lying around or your higher self giving you advice. i read of people who can talk to their higher self but im not yet capable of doing so
ive been struggling with this for a very long time
so whats the advice for the average human?
This is wise my friend! 4th density is, in my opinion, learning that STA is more effective than service to others. In serving others we are serving the all. Look at the confederation, it starts in 4th density and exists to serve the entire of the creation. They have dedicated the existence of themselves the better the existence of the whole.
The social memory complex exists to make this a possibility. Look at specialisation in 3D, we have too much knowledge available to learn as one soul. This prevents further progress because groups of knowledge cannot collaborate with others. All 4th density does is enable us to be the best creator we can be, it is vital to be a social memory complex to serve the all, and so we must learn the lessons of love before we can attempt to share that with the all.
In 4D, every lesson that is learned is available to every other part of the social memory complex, everything is shared, all information is shared and so service to all is inevitably the only possibility.
I may be completely wrong so please don’t take what I have to say as gospel. Love/light.