i heard that the timeline split being based on STO/STS was "loving misinformation"

[Kaaron]

The STS/STO path has been simplified for duality.
There are more grey areas than black n white.
Being responsible for the self, whilst offering assistance to those who have stepped off the karmic wheel by forgiving, is the positive STS path. To try to help one who has not made this choice...is pointless. Beyond offering assistance for their chosen slumber.
You can be completely focused on the self.
You can be completely focused on others.
You may be focused on the self, whilst holding space for others who reach out needing a light shone on their path.
You may be focused on others whilst holding your torch out for the self.
You may be focused on the self...whilst being equally mindful as to how every choice impacts others.
These are the 3 paths of positive STS and STO...as well as BALANCE.
the sinkhole of indifference...is part of the negative paths...which are the opposite of what I've described here.
The self responsibility and other responsibility model feels true.
The 3rd option...being a combination of both...or unity.