I am a wanderer and - self acceptance post, feel free to add

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A wonderful vulnerable post and great comments, everybody!

As a Chrone, I can, finally, say wholeheartedly:

1. all comparisons and competition are highly overrated and don't even make real sense (what would count as a huge achievement for somebody feels only mediocre for somebody else, i.e.), we are all perfect/ever evolving expressions of the one infinite Creator,
2. how "others" feel and think about me is none of my business = can't be controlled by me and says more about "them" than "me" (discovering this really saved my body and soul), none of us really knows the "other", the only thing we operate with is our image of them,
3. self-acceptance is a crucial part of learning how to love unconditionally (for me, it was the hardest part to learn even after I was living in absolute acceptance of every other expression of the Creator for years),
4. the only thing we ever experience is what we believe about ourselves which can be a bad news and a good news: there is nobody else to blame for any unpleasant experience but we can replace the unconscious process of manifesting our fears with the conscious process of manifesting our true hearts desires = make our experience blissful and change the experience of others as well.

My experience of transformation during this incarnation is rich and long (that's why it isn't written down and posted as one of the Wanderer Stories). Any questions welcome though.

I think I have nailed point 1, and 2 and am working to fully solidify/crystallize 3. I think you are right about it being big for unconditional love. We can accept others without taking into account the worlds view but it is harder to ignore the worlds supposed valuation when it is about us. Finally getting past that means or at least should mean that it is unshakable the unconditional aspects.
Day by day, step by step.

It is funny I posted this yesterday and sent similar to those closest t me. Might sound strange but I wanted to remove all pretense that I was going to hide behind any illusion I was trying to seek acceptance or was feeling I had to become more worthy.

I feel weirdly calm since doing so. Hopefully it will just become an unstoppable snowball rolling down hill and I will be free of all judgement of any kind eventually. F the veil I love it all no need to separate from any wounded aspect. Just love it.

I guess I need to love the veil too.

Thanks Rita