09-26-2018, 07:04 AM
I will do some digging and see if I can pull up some posts that I feel were reflective of how he really felt when he wasn't upset or in a tortured state.
You got this, let your heart guide you, it knows the way and is leading you well. It may not always seem that way, but call me someone with a lot of faith. Your love is your shadow right now, bring it in to the light and he will see it too. Just don't back down. If there's one advice I feel I can give when working with him is to let your love shine as bright as possible. It will take time. He might not get it at first, but I think what he really needs is just a continuous example of caring in his life. I feel ashamed that we did so poorly at that, but hopefully some of us have learned.
You got this, let your heart guide you, it knows the way and is leading you well. It may not always seem that way, but call me someone with a lot of faith. Your love is your shadow right now, bring it in to the light and he will see it too. Just don't back down. If there's one advice I feel I can give when working with him is to let your love shine as bright as possible. It will take time. He might not get it at first, but I think what he really needs is just a continuous example of caring in his life. I feel ashamed that we did so poorly at that, but hopefully some of us have learned.
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