Win/Losing and Lose/Winning

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This discussion reminds me of why I enjoy Battlefield so much.

I played a close quarters level exclusively for a while.  I found that sometimes in losing the game, I personally won from feeling like I did well.  I'd play Medic and just heal, revive, and play the objective, even if my team lost, I was usually the top score of my team and sometimes even better than the winning team.

Then there's games where I get slaughtered but my team wins, that's a lose/win.

Thats really kind of cool.

I think Ra's intent in saying to be free with your dark fantasies in mind is that it's better to leave some things to the imagination.

I think it has something to do with accepting self and not judging it. Things considered lower fall off naturally at the right time, so pushing to suppress or change things is really self judgement/nonacceptance and "better" to heal those parts than suppress and have it fester, though sometimes a huge festering wound brings more transformation than one that had been quickly healed. No one size fits all.