A proposal

[sjel]

It's cool you want to read deeper than words but I think expecting others to do the same and try to see if you get a reaction is kind of selfish.

Lots of people are hurting in this world no need to go around seeing if you can poke a wound. Or even expecting someone to want or accept your catalyst is kind of control based. Maybe you were not intending to do it in a way that would poke at wounds I don't know. Doesn't sound like you.

The other thing though is that we use launguage in an attempt to communicate clearly. Of course some use it to manipulate but it's nice when all our intentions are clear honest communication not trickery.

You're right. Already I am feeling very deeply the repercussions of this sort of philosophy.

In any case I think this thread is indicative of the growing pains of the forum