06-29-2017, 11:54 AM
(This post was last modified: 06-29-2017, 11:55 AM by GentleReckoning.)
(06-29-2017, 06:46 AM)Cainite Wrote:(06-29-2017, 06:02 AM)GentleReckoning Wrote: In my experience, it would be an aspect of the 'higher' self of the male that your beloved is involved with. And if that is the case, then if you learn to stick up for yourself amidst these assaults then you may win back her favor. (positive/negative offering)
I would of course advise you to use this freedom from her as a portal to rapidly learn and grow independent of externalized validation of the self. The Disney love story is generally a trap...
If you want any further help, hit me up. This kind of stuff is my bread and butter, day in and day out. :p
The guy is a mutual friend and I have love and respect for him.. he's very wise and well read. and she also loves me a lot. but she started to see me as her brother after some years since we stopped having sex completely because of the lack of desire. the first two years of our relationship was magical though..
If you stopped having sex, then be happy for her that she is in a sexual relationship that she enjoys... that's what a friend would feel. If you can do this, you will be set for relationships for the rest of your life. This is the strongest cord in our society.... cutting it gives you cahones of unbelievable size when everyone else is looking to throw their life away for someone else.