Soul mate

[Jeremy]

I highly recommend Michael Newton's books, "Journey of Souls" and "Destiny of Souls".  Michael Newton developed a hypnotic regression to the time between lives, and discovered a very surprising consistency across subjects in their descriptions of that world, which Ra calls "time-space".  A large portion of the books consists of transcripts describing how entities plan their incarnations.  He describes "soul clusters" of entities who tend to work together, assuming varying roles, life after life.  The material meshes nicely with the Ra material, and will shed some light on your question.

In short, before incarnating, entities plan to partner with a significant other, and program into their subconscious cues that will allow them to recognize each other (subsconsciously) when the time comes.  This fits 100% with my experience - I know exactly what those cues were that allowed me to meet my soulmate, with whom I've been together for a very, very long time.

can you explain the description of those clues Stranger?

The clues would be very subtle. Such as a necklace one would wear,  a certain scent,  the color of their eyes,  etc. Something that would be purposely added so that the other self has a bit of de ja vu in a sense. 


What Newton found was that there was a primary soul mate that a person had incarnated with in other lives. They were generally the one that they chose to learn the most lessons from. If the plan falls through,  there was typically a secondary soul mate where they could still learn the lessons they needed. 

The inherent issue I have with newtons work is that it seems to deal with earth natives so I'm unsure how this pertains to wanderers and their purpose here. He never found evidence of higher density entities because he was always dealing with natives still learning the lessons to what I believe was for graduation.  Anything at the guide level was very sparce or just wasn't talked about due to their higher self and guides disallowing such info to come across