06-29-2014, 10:25 PM
(06-29-2014, 06:27 PM)Adonai One Wrote: Work - Catalyst accepted towards a certain desire
Service-to-others - Work towards reaching the desire of universal acceptance of all people and their desires
Service-to-self: Work towards only reaching the desires of the self regardless of others
Are these definitions agreeable?
Nope

For me, the hallmark of STS is "at the expanse of others" part.
Working towards only reaching the desires of the self regardless of others is STO. Selfishness is not STS.
If you are not exploiting others for your personal benefit you are not walking the STS path.