What is beyond oneness?

[tadeus]

It seemed to take me to a realm of pure consciousness beyond all of the 3D experiences that seem so vivid to my MBS.

I could also see that Our collective being-ness (the Creator/Creation) could be in two different states:
a) manifest/separate (the illusion of being a separate entity in a density), or
b) un-manifest/unified.
I had the distinct sense that I (3D version of me) was moving toward something that lay beyond me (and still do). (illusion of separation) 

That's a nice description that's fit.

Does it have to be that We are in either one state or the other? Could We (the 1ICC) be in both simultaneously (both/and, instead of either/or)?

It seems that we can only choose the perspective / point of view of a painting that is to big to catch it at once.

If I see that, in truth, We are one and infinite - both the Creator and the Creation - where do I find myself?
There is no "other" as different from "self"? Huh?
Well, then, is there both a whole perspective and an infinite parts perspective?
How do I (3D me) serve the whole, the part(s)? The distinctions started to break down, or I lost my grasp on them. In a sense, all of it is "knowing Ourself."

I would say we find the self in our individual point of view, that is different from the group consciousness.
That's our free will.

When I zoom in on my 3D self, and all of the perceived other-selves here with me, I can see us as 'expressed' or 'coalesced' facets of the One-ness that we also are.

When I zoom out on our One-ness, and view Us as One, infinitely-faceted being of energy, I see lots of other 1ICCs, our siblings, which coalesce together and repel into separateness. Our 1ICC is like an atom within an infinite ocean of atoms. It (the energy) can "separate" and "unify" via attraction/repulsion.

That's really nice.

At least we must feel lost, to have a reason to go (back) in unity with the One Creator.
Between we should enjoy the "dance to the tune of seeming separation" as Q'uo has suggested.