"You create your reality"

[Minyatur]

So, I've noticed that in the discussions on victims and other such situations the focus has often been upon that of the victim themselves and their position in the process of creation, however I would like to bring light that one's own desires are not the only ones in the universe and that we are co-creators so it is possible to become involved with others' desires as well. In the case of the rape victim, it has to be remembered that the rapist also puts out a powerful emotional vibration and is 'creating their reality' in the same way the victim supposedly is.

It still would be contained from within your free will. There's a step of light here, that all of your fate (across every density) was your own will and that every interaction you had with others were an answer to a need within yourself and also within themselves. This is not an easy lesson but it remains a fated one because that is how things ever are.

You are co-creator because you have the free will to perceive the truthful mirror of yourself through many-ness, this includes the desire to see yourself through both yourself and others as individualizations and how they inter-connect in their unified dance. I think if one's desires would be stronger than these more fundamental desires at the core of each of us, then you would be able to reject any aspect/facet/portion of your reality. This is a bit like how some can believe what they desire most would be to be alone, I can assure you they have a stronger and more fundamental desire to not be alone and went to great lenghts to get where they are at in their experience of not being alone. Regretting this and believing you want otherwise is just a portion of what it means to not be alone.

I think the more you go to the core of yourself and the more you go toward your fundamental nature which not only allows everything that has happened to you to have happened but also willed it. If you go beyond that, free will is an illusion and you never could have not been that which you are nor could you have not sought to know yourself.

They might even be just vaguely looking for any victim and so those who already have some sense of victimhood may light up to them, like a predator who smells blood. Amazing how easy we forgive the predator while expecting the victim to rise above.

Well that simply depends on which party you are dealing with. If you deal with the predator, you guide the person toward healing in what it specifically requires and if you deal with the victim you also guide the person toward healing in what it specifically requires, both are in need of that. In my own personal opinion, I believe the predator to be much more distorted/broken/hurt and requiring a greater deal of work to find healing. As such, the victim would have an easier time rising above and less steps to take toward healing.

I think people like to sympathize with victims so long they don't go past their tolerance point and end up broken and perceived as something both ugly and evil. Then they move from being something to defend to instead be something to fight against.

There is a large part of the Ra Material where Ra discusses 'free will infringement' and indeed it is a crux of the point of the difference between polarities. I have noticed that some in their striving for unity have discarded this notion, instead justifying everything according to free will and it's freedom only. I disagree with this. I believe infringement is not only possible but is also common and that this whole 'you vibrationally called it to you' is a bunch of mumbo-jumbo created by manipulative individuals in order to induce docility towards trauma.

Free will infringement relates to an aspect of the game, it works with polarity so long you have a limited awareness of the game which makes you feel through polarity. Look right or look left, there is but love/light light/love to see in beings of love/light light/love.

I think to say that you vibrationally called it to you is an attempt to shed light upon the Creator within and alignment with the core of yourself, because any person is the One Infinite Creator.

Note, it's not that I don't believe in manifestation, I just think that is different from the fabric of one's life.

We can call it attraction, spiritual gravity or resonance, here I think it is a matter of whether you want to guide the person toward feeling that everything is well or reinforce their feeling that everything is not well.

If we talk about that this might very well be an unrealistic thing to share with most people, I would agree but this is a forum which seeks to explore these things. I don't believe I can make any person understand it is every being/emotion/event and that all of it is their will, self and object of their purest love, but I think there are individuals of this forum who can awaken to this truth they already contain within but have temporary lost sight of.