the problem with unconditional love here...

[Plenum]

that's why I am still interested in what constitutes 'specific conditions'.

what is another interesting oxymoron/conundrum, is this:

The nature of polarity is interesting in that those experiences offered to the Significator as positive frequently become recorded as productive of biases which may be seen to be negative, whereas the fruit of those experiences apparently negative is frequently found to be helpful in the development of the service-to-others bias.

ie, give someone 'positive experiences' and they become complacent, negligent, self-serving, and 'superior' in attitude to others.

on the contrary. give someone harsh, negative, depriving, hurtful experiences, and they may become more positive.

how's that for a bag of lemons??