How I interpret one of my life's most major catalyst...

[vervex]

Tina, can you give your ideal and positive scenario?

Hahaha, well, in all cases, whether we are speaking of a single entity having an inner conflict or two entities or more having a conflict, I believe the most profitable course of action for both would be to enable maximal growth (transformation) for both, and this can be fulfilled by both individuals being open to understand each other, resulting potentially in the finding of an amicable solution in the best case scenario. In the situation you portrayed above, only one individual changes and it could be argued that it is through "sacrifice" or forcible transformation.

In all cases, if there is no desire from any of the two entities (or parts of the selves) to relate to each other, you will be stuck in a perpetual cycle of "will you help me?" "no." "will you help me now?" "no." "will you help me sometime like now?" "still no.". It really doesn't lead anywhere