My son and his father are on their way to Vegas and both of them in the car for a long road trip would usually end up in a fight! My ex-husband is still using drugs occaisionally and I advised my son if he feels unsafe in the car with his dad and if he thinks he is high to tell his dad that he will not go with him to Vegas!
Anyway I texted him to see how it was going and he said that "he is being positive". Wow...that might not seem like a big deal to most people but this is huge for my son! He also told me that he cried in front of his gf. I think my son is coming around! I hope so!
I just read that we are not to interfere with a catalyst but how do you let you child go when there is a possibility of them getting into a car accident because the father is using drugs???
I am still a mother, I remind him to put on his jacket, do his homework, mom stuff...