11-26-2019, 11:33 AM
Here are my thoughts:
There are no absolutes so no, in my opinion there is no fated outcome no matter how you navigate this particular life. This is an infinite existence with infinite possibilities. A shift in focus may help, even though that can be very challenging, since we dig grooves in our paths and inertia keeps us stuck to the familiar.
I would concentrate on shifting focus, so you can bring yourself into better balance. The first thing is to make sure to take good care of your physical body: eat well; exercise; don't do drugs or alcohol.
Work on your sense of self, self-esteem, individuality. Take charge of your life and decide who you want to be and what you want do. Some tips: always use good posture whether walking or sitting. Say one good thing about yourself everyday out loud (it has to be something true, and everybody no matter who has at least one good thing). Focus on your goals in life and commit to them 100%. Make sure you get out into nature and out of human environments once in a while. Avoid too much media/device time. Learn to set healthy boundaries—this isn't easy for a lot of people. One step toward that is to learn to say "no."
Around the age 28-30, there is a major event called the first Saturn return in astrology. It coincides with the brain's frontal lobe completing full development. Many people "get their act together" at this point or make major life decisions/changes. The twenties can be a crazy time.
There are no absolutes so no, in my opinion there is no fated outcome no matter how you navigate this particular life. This is an infinite existence with infinite possibilities. A shift in focus may help, even though that can be very challenging, since we dig grooves in our paths and inertia keeps us stuck to the familiar.
I would concentrate on shifting focus, so you can bring yourself into better balance. The first thing is to make sure to take good care of your physical body: eat well; exercise; don't do drugs or alcohol.
Work on your sense of self, self-esteem, individuality. Take charge of your life and decide who you want to be and what you want do. Some tips: always use good posture whether walking or sitting. Say one good thing about yourself everyday out loud (it has to be something true, and everybody no matter who has at least one good thing). Focus on your goals in life and commit to them 100%. Make sure you get out into nature and out of human environments once in a while. Avoid too much media/device time. Learn to set healthy boundaries—this isn't easy for a lot of people. One step toward that is to learn to say "no."
Quote:If you have trouble saying no, try this:
For one week, say "no" to everything (within reason). You can use the excuse that you are doing an exercise, if this is too uncomfortable. Blame it on a book you’re reading (this one!). The point of this exercise is to experience how it feels. By saying “no,” you will feel the relief from certain things you really did not want, or have the time, to do. This will jumpstart your ability to make good time-management decisions without emotional responses.
Around the age 28-30, there is a major event called the first Saturn return in astrology. It coincides with the brain's frontal lobe completing full development. Many people "get their act together" at this point or make major life decisions/changes. The twenties can be a crazy time.