Is it selfish to go home?

[AnthroHeart]

After this incarnation, we could stay for another incarnation in 3D. To try to help others even more.
Or we can go home, if we are a wanderer.
It may be foolish or brave to repeat another incarnation.

But is it selfish to return home where it's much easier to be?

What if you choose love? Does it mean more to stay in 3D for love?

Or can you love another more in higher density than you can in 3D?

Can you give to another more in higher density than you can in 3D?

[Aion]

Comparing moments in the journey of a life soul is like trying to compare snowflakes. Each moment is so unique there's really no way to compare. Better then to appreciate each for its unique state.

No matter where you are, there you are.

[Sacred Fool]

GW:  That decision isn't made by just you as you consider yourself now, but by you from the point of view of the totality of all your incarnations, according to Q'uo.  Q'uo avers that one who incarnates deliberately weighs its entire soul stream to see if things are balanced/imbalanced.  The main themes are (1) too much or too little wisdom, (2) too much or too little love and (3) right use of power. 

If you're struggling in this incarnation (and I think it's fair to say that most of are), it may be because achieving that balance is a cumbersome business, and all the more so if you were ambitious and programmed a variety of challenges in this particular lifetime, hoping to be more effective.

In other words, it's possible that your next incarnation (wherever it may be located) will be easier for you in proportion to how diligently you accept and learn the lessons programmed for this lifetime, and how deeply you allow them to realign your being.