(09-29-2016, 10:44 PM)jeremy6d Wrote: And it's important to understand that "kinks" are not so much things that we designed consciously for ourselves as things that kind of happened to us, from our impressionable moments in incarnation.
(10-02-2016, 10:34 AM)Bring4th_Jade Wrote: I just feel that letting distortions of this extremely powerful, magical act fall away as we become aware of them seems like a good goal to have.
Perhaps to build off of what Jeremy and Jade are saying, I have been wondering the following inquiry: by what specific means can one disentangle undesired sexual distortions acquired as adolescents, such distortions having been embedded into one's sexuality by the mechanism of imprinting?