Acceptance and Will

[Monica]

Where is that at?

I don't remember but it's definitely in there. Try doing an 'and' search for the words necessary and self.

[3DMonkey]

This is the closest I could find to your suggestion. It's not really what you meant though.

Ra: I am Ra. The term efficiency has misleading connotations. In the context of doing work in the disciplines of the personality, in order to be of more full efficiency in the central acceptance of the self, it is first quite necessary to know the distortions of the self which the entity is accepting. Each thought and action needs must then be scrutinized for the precise foundation of the distortions of any reactions. This process shall lead to the more central task of acceptance. However, the architrave must be in place before the structure is builded.

[Monica]

This is the closest I could find to your suggestion. It's not really what you meant though.

That's not the quote I was thinking of. It was very explicitly stated.

[zenmaster]

Separation and all the emotions that come with it are at their base driven by fear.

I'm not too sure about that. We can consciously repress something in order to separate ourselves from it. Is this the unconscious reaction we know as fear? Doubtful that it's correct to say fear-based separation, in that context, if only because the will is invoked in a conscious manner. Although from a 3rd density perspective, it's easy to point a finger at fear as a driving factor.

[3DMonkey]

50.6 Questioner: Could you give an example of negative polarization sharing love of self? It would seem to me that that would deplete negative polarization. Could you expand on the concept?
Ra: I am Ra. We may not use examples of known beings due to the infringement this would cause. Thus we must be general.

The negatively oriented being will be one who feels that it has found power that gives meaning to its existence precisely as the positive polarization does feel. This negative entity will strive to offer these understandings to other-selves, most usually by the process of forming the elite, the disciples, and teaching the need and rightness of the enslavement of other-selves for their own good. These other-selves are conceived to be dependent upon the self and in need of the guidance and the wisdom of the self.

These other-selves are conceived to be in need of the guidance and the wisdom of the self.

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This is the closest I could find to your suggestion. It's not really what you meant though.

That's not the quote I was thinking of. It was very explicitly stated.

Are you thinking of Ra's suggestion to see the self as Creator?

[drifting pages]

Ra stated that if you don't love yourself you can't love others.

STO is not neglecting the self in favor of others it is integrating the self in harmony with others in shared love.

That is how i see it.


What is the base of the Negative polarity other that there is only the perceived self (don't ask me what the perceived self is like in 5th and 6th density i have no idea)

The love go only inwards the negative entity is not able to be fully whole.

Lack of full love is fear what else is it ?

Fear that you can't be as you will embracing the separation and integrating it.
Not embracing the infinite reflections as also the "greater you"

Always controlling not trusting your own nature and harmony in the varies spheres of consciousness, always resisting the flow of love that easily harmonizes everything.

That is why the entropy keeps getting worse and worse the more aware you are.(as negative)

Obviously a late 5 th density experiences that fear quite differently then we do.
But so does the positive 5th density experience love in different ways then we do.

Edit: so hmm, All is well this is the thought i use as guide for my life experience
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[3DMonkey]

Ra stated that if you don't love yourself you can't love others.

still searching for that

[zenmaster]

Ra stated that if you don't love yourself you can't love others.

still searching for that

Can't find Monica's or dp's quotes, or anything close to it. There is some info on accepting the self, however.

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Lack of full love is fear what else is it ?

Ignorance, confusion, being unconscious, lack of acceptance? While it's certainly true that fear is a separating influence (from love), it is simply incorrect to say that it is the only separating influence. We can control in order to separate, and that control can be due to fear. But it can also be due to inspiration and conviction.

[drifting pages]

The inspiration and conviction is based on what ?

I control and resist my full self because i do not trust it fully what else is there ?

Of course this based in confusion but isn't the not knowing that causes the fear direction ?

I fear to become one with everything i must survive i can't have what i want any other way.


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Maybe i am wrong but this is what i understand right now.

We are all illusions in a way, both self and other then self. How consciousness plays it all out shows the "chosen polarity".

[3DMonkey]

42.6 Questioner: I would like to try to make an analogy for third-density of this concept. Many entities here feel great compassion for relieving the physical problems of third-density other-selves by administering to them in many ways, with food if there is hunger as there is now in the African nations, by bringing them medicine if they feel that there is a need to minister to them medically, and being selfless in all of these services to a very great extent.

This is creating a vibration that is in harmony with green-ray or fourth-density but it is not balanced with the understanding of fifth-density that these entities are experiencing catalysts and a more balanced administration to their needs would be to provide them with the learning necessary to reach the state of awareness of fourth-density than it would be to minister to their physical needs at this time. Is this correct?
Ra: I am Ra. This is incorrect. To a mind/body/spirit complex which is starving, the appropriate response is the feeding of the body. You may extrapolate from this.

On the other hand, however, you are correct in your assumption that the green ray response is not as refined as that which has been imbued with wisdom. This wisdom enables the entity to appreciate its contributions to the planetary consciousness by the quality of its being without regard to activity or behavior which expects results upon visible planes.



43.14 Questioner: Then the big difference in harvestability between third and fourth density is that at the end of the third density the individual is harvested as a function of individual violet ray, but it is the violet-ray for the entire social memory complex that must be of a harvestable nature to graduate to the fifth density. Is this correct?
Ra: I am Ra. This is correct although in fifth density entities may choose to learn as a social memory complex or as mind/body/spirit complexes and may graduate to sixth density under these conditions, for the wisdom density is an extremely free density whereas the lessons of compassion leading to wisdom necessarily have to do with other-selves.

These two quotes indicate how much wisdom is beyond our grasp.

When we dig deeper into what wisdom is, we find that it has more to do with formation than it has to do with intelligence. This is why fifth density has the ability to exist solely in thought and the ability to manifest any form.

51.10 Questioner: Immediately after the death of the physical body you have stated that the primary activated body is the indigo, and you stated that it is the form-maker. Why is this so?
Ra: I am Ra. This will be the last full query of this session of working.

The indigo body may be seen to be an analog for intelligent energy. It is, in microcosm, the Logos. The intelligent energy of the mind/body/spirit complex totality draws its existence from intelligent infinity or the Creator. This Creator is to be understood, both in macrocosm and microcosm, to have, as we have said, two natures: the unpotentiated infinity which is intelligent; this is all that there is.

Free will has potentiated[increased the power of], both the Creator of us all and our selves as co-Creators with intelligent infinity which has will. This will may be drawn upon by the indigo or form-making body and its wisdom used to then choose the appropriate locus and type of experience which this co-Creator or sub-sub-Logos you call so carelessly a person will take.

78.11 Questioner: Could you elaborate please on the nature and quality of the matrix and the potentiator?
Ra: I am Ra. In the mind complex the matrix may be described as consciousness. It has been called the Magician. It is to be noted that of itself consciousness is unmoved. The potentiator of consciousness is the unconscious. This encompasses a vast realm of potential in the mind.

In the body the matrix may be seen as Balanced Working or Even Functioning. Note that here the matrix is always active with no means of being inactive. The potentiator of the body complex, then, may be called Wisdom for it is only through judgment that the unceasing activities and proclivities of the body complex may be experienced in useful modes.

85.16 Questioner: I have a question here from (name). It states: “As we see compassion developing in ourselves is it more appropriate to balance this compassion with wisdom or to allow the compassion to develop as much as possible without being balanced”?
Ra: I am Ra. This query borders upon that type of question to which answers are unavailable due to the free-will prohibitions upon information from teach/learners.

To the student of the balancing process we may suggest that the most stringent honesty be applied. As compassion is perceived it is suggested that, in balancing, this perception be analyzed. It may take many, many essays into compassion before true universal love is the product of the attempted opening and crystallization of this all-important springboard energy center. Thus the student may discover many other components to what may seem to be all-embracing love. Each of these components may be balanced and accepted as part of the self and as transitional material as the entity’s seat of learn/teaching moves ever more clearly into the green ray.

When it is perceived that universal love has been achieved the next balancing may or may not be wisdom. If the adept is balancing manifestations it is indeed appropriate to balance universal love and wisdom. If the balancing is of mind or spirit there are many subtleties to which the adept may give careful consideration. Love and wisdom, like love and light, are not black and white, shall we say, but faces of the same coin, if you will. Therefore, it is not, in all cases, that balancing consists of a movement from compassion to wisdom.

[Monica]

Are you thinking of Ra's suggestion to see the self as Creator?

No. I remember it very clearly because I felt very disconcerted when I read it, since I found it easier to love and forgive others than to love or forgive myself.

[native]

Ok..let me try it from this angle.

Ra has said that there are very few whose energy centers radiate evenly at their fullest potential. Most of us are imperfect, and we must accept these imperfections and balance them accordingly. The wisdom density allows one to view these imperfections and be honest with them.

The truth is, no matter how much we would love to be able to radiate and serve in the highest of all actions at all times, we cannot take on the whole world ourselves. Certain actions will cause us to throw ourselves off-balance, or drain our well-being. We are each unique in our own ways and have traits that allow us to be more effective in our service than others. We are meant to be unique and have our downfalls. As we harmonize our imperfections within our social memory complex, we move more towards a state of perfect unity.

We all have our capabilities, and limits. Embracing these limits and loving the self, being able to recognize that ideally you would like to serve as best as possible but you can't in all circumstances, is being honest with the self.

This is the heart of wisdom.

[Confused]

Are you thinking of Ra's suggestion to see the self as Creator?

No. I remember it very clearly because I felt very disconcerted when I read it, since I found it easier to love and forgive others than to love or forgive myself.

Monica, is the following the quote you are looking for --

5.2 Questioner: We have decided to accept, if offered, the honor/duty of learning/teaching the healing process. I would ask as to the first step which we should accomplish in becoming effective healers.

Ra: I am Ra. We shall begin with the first of the three teachings/learnings.

We begin with the mental learn/teachings necessary for contact with intelligent infinity. The prerequisite of mental work is the ability to retain silence of self at a steady state when required by the self. The mind must be opened like a door. The key is silence.

Within the door lies an hierarchical construction you may liken unto geography and in some ways geometry, for the hierarchy is quite regular, bearing inner relationships.

To begin to master the concept of mental discipline it is necessary to examine the self. The polarity of your dimension must be internalized. Where you find patience within your mind you must consciously find the corresponding impatience and vice versa. Each thought that a being has, has in its turn an antithesis. The disciplines of the mind involve, first of all, identifying both those things of which you approve and those things of which you disapprove within yourself, and then balancing each and every positive and negative charge with its equal. The mind contains all things. Therefore, you must discover this completeness within yourself.

The second mental discipline is acceptance of the completeness within your consciousness. It is not for a being of polarity in the physical consciousness to pick and choose among attributes, thus building the roles that cause blockages and confusions in the already-distorted mind complex. Each acceptance smoothes part of the many distortions that the faculty you call judgment engenders.

The third discipline of the mind is a repetition of the first but with the gaze outward towards the fellow entities that it meets. In each entity there exists completeness. Thus, the ability to understand each balance is necessary. When you view patience, you are responsible for mirroring in your mental understanding, patience/impatience. When you view impatience, it is necessary for your mental configuration of understanding to be impatience/patience. We use this as a simple example. Most configurations of mind have many facets, and understanding of either self polarities, or what you would call other-self polarities, can and must be understood as subtle work.

The next step is the acceptance of the other-self polarities, which mirrors the second step.

These are the first four steps of learning mental discipline. The fifth step involves observing the geographical and geometrical relationships and ratios of the mind, the other mind, the mass mind, and the infinite mind.

The second area of learn/teaching is the study/understanding of the body complexes. It is necessary to know your body well. This is a matter of using the mind to examine how the feelings, the biases, what you would call the emotions, affect various portions of the body complex. It shall be necessary to both understand the bodily polarities and to accept them, repeating in a chemical/physical manifestation the work you have done upon the mind bethinking the consciousness.

The body is a creature of the mind’s creation. It has its biases. The biological bias must be first completely understood and then the opposite bias allowed to find full expression in understanding. Again, the process of acceptance of the body as a balanced, as well as polarized, individual may then be accomplished. It is then the task to extend this understanding to the bodies of the other-selves whom you will meet.

The simplest example of this is the understanding that each biological male is female; each biological female is male. This is a simple example. However, in almost every case wherein you are attempting the understanding of the body of self or other-self, you will again find that the most subtle discernment is necessary in order to fully grasp the polarity complexes involved.

At this time we would suggest closing the description until the next time of work so that we may devote time to the third area commensurate with its importance.

We can answer a query if it is a short one before we leave this instrument.

[zenmaster]

We all have our capabilities, and limits. Embracing these limits and loving the self, being able to recognize that ideally you would like to serve as best as possible but you can't in all circumstances, is being honest with the self.

This is the heart of wisdom.

But coming to know about the self is not wisdom, and neither is the next step, acceptance of self (with one's capabilities and limits). So where does wisdom really apply? I mean, if you can not embrace your limits, that is lack of acceptance, not lack of wisdom.

[Monica]

Monica, is the following the quote you are looking for --

No. It was a very short quote, regarding requirements for harvest. It's possible it was Q'uo but I'm 99% certain it was Ra.

[native]

But coming to know about the self is not wisdom, and neither is the next step, acceptance of self (with one's capabilities and limits). So where does wisdom really apply? I mean, if you can not embrace your limits, that is lack of acceptance, not lack of wisdom.

Yes, but where does the knowledge in how to fully embrace your limits or truly know the self really come from? When is it learned and integrated? Different levels and lessons of acceptance aren't limited to any particular energy center/density. It is a continual process of evolution and understanding.

The blue-ray center of energy streaming is the center which, for the first time, is outgoing as well as inpouring. Those blocked in this area may have difficulty in grasping the spirit/mind complexes of its own entity and further difficulty in expressing such understandings of self.

The indigo ray is opened only through considerable discipline and practice largely having to do with acceptance of self, not only as the polarized and balanced self but as the Creator, as an entity of infinite worth. This will begin to activate the indigo ray.

How about you give some answers

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No. It was a very short quote, regarding requirements for harvest. It's possible it was Q'uo but I'm 99% certain it was Ra.

I remember something similar also, but I can't recall if it is Q'uo or Ra. Haven't read much of Q'uo at all actually.

[Monica]

This isn't it either, but it's relevant to the discussion:

75.14 Questioner: The instrument would like to know why twice during the “Benedictus” portion of the music she sang in a group concert that she experienced what she believes to be a psychic attack?
Ra: I am Ra. This is not a minor query.[1] We shall first remove the notations which are minor. In the vibrating, which you call singing, of the portion of what this instrument hallows as the Mass which immediately precedes that which is the chink called the “Hosanna” there is an amount of physical exertion required that is exhausting to any entity. This portion of which we speak is termed the “Sanctus.” We come now to the matter of interest.

When the entity Jehoshuah decided to return to the location called Jerusalem for the holy days of its people it turned from work mixing love and wisdom and embraced martyrdom which is the work of love without wisdom.

The “Hosanna,” as it is termed, and the following ”Benedictus,” is that which is the written summation of what was shouted as Jehoshuah came into the place of its martyrdom. The general acceptance of this shout, “Hosanna to the son of David! Hosanna in the highest! Blessed is he who comes in the name of the Lord!” by that which is called the church has been a misstatement, an occurrence which has been, perhaps, unfortunate for it is more distorted than much of the so-called Mass.

There were two factions present to greet Jehoshuah, firstly, a small group of those which hoped for an earthly king. However, Jehoshuah rode upon an ass stating by its very demeanor that it was no earthly king and wished no fight with Roman or Sadducee.

The greater number were those which had been instructed by rabbi and elder to make jest of this entity, for those of the hierarchy feared this entity who seemed to be one of them, giving respect to their laws and then, in their eyes, betraying those time-honored laws and taking the people with it.

The chink for this instrument is this subtle situation which echoes down through your space/time and, more than this, the place the “Hosanna” holds as the harbinger of that turning to martyrdom. We may speak only generally here. The instrument did not experience the full force of the greeting which it correctly identified during the “Hosanna” due to the intense concentration necessary to vibrate its portion of that composition. However, the “Benedictus” in this particular rendition of these words is vibrated by one entity. Thus the instrument relaxed its concentration and was immediately open to the fuller greeting.

[3DMonkey]

Martyrdom as the work of love without wisdom.

I don't think this means death for a cause is lacking in personal applied insight or accrued knowledge.

I think this means work of love that forgoes the manifestations of the knowledge of the Creator to form energy in the physical form.

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Most of us tend to think of wisdom as knowledge and insight acquired from experience over time.

I believe Ra uses "wisdom" as the knowledge of the Creator to manifest energy into applicable form.

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In other words, not overall learned knowledge of a particular entity, but the overall acquired knowledge of physical creation.

(Who here thinks themselves more wise than a high fourth density/about to graduate to fifth density Jehoshua? Lol. )

[native]

On the other hand, however, you are correct in your assumption that the green ray response is not as refined as that which has been imbued with wisdom. This wisdom enables the entity to appreciate its contributions to the planetary consciousness by the quality of its being without regard to activity or behavior which expects results upon visible planes.

What Ra is saying is that in wisdom, an entity is able to recognize its limits and that its efforts without the intended results are good enough. It doesn't neglect itself. A loving 4d entity would exhaust itself endlessly in trying to achieve success, or feel failure at the result of an unsuccessful outcome.

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Most of us tend to think of wisdom as knowledge and insight acquired from experience over time.

I believe Ra uses "wisdom" as the knowledge of the Creator to manifest energy into applicable form.

In other words, not overall learned knowledge of a particular entity, but the overall acquired knowledge of physical creation.

(Who here thinks themselves more wise than a high fourth density/about to graduate to fifth density Jehoshua? Lol. )

I consider myself pretty darn wise I've provided a pretty solid argument in defining aspects of wisdom..I stand by it!

I'll continue to refine it.

[3DMonkey]

What Ra is saying is that in wisdom, an entity is able to recognize its limits and that its efforts without results are good enough. It doesn't neglect itself. A loving 4d entity would exhaust itself endlessly in trying to achieve success, or feel failure at the result of an unsuccessful outcome.

"unsuccessful outcome" "success" : These are "expected results".

If I walk away from a situation because I did not receive my expected result, it is not a wisdom imbued response.

LOL. Neither one of us is wise at all if we expect our arguments will result in a self suitable way.

[native]

I left the word intended out which I edited in. An entity can only try now, right? A balanced entity has no attachment to the outcome. It is satisfied with the act of service, not simply the end result. That doesn't mean it won't keep trying if necessary, but a wise entity knows its limits.

[native]

I found a Q'uo session directly addressing this topic, the nature of loving the self and its importance. I could quote much of it, so just go to the session and read all of it.

Transcript from July 5, 1992

Group question: The question today has to do with the concept of nurturing self-love. How do people who are naturally oriented towards being of service to others, and perhaps even serving beyond the ability to fully care for the self, take the time and energy and effort to nurture themselves? What is a way in which people can look at the nurturing of the self as a natural part of service to others? What kind of suggestions can you make as to how we can become aware of our needs for nurturing, and fulfill those needs as we go about the process of serving others and learning and growing in our daily activities?

Now, you may note that we moved from blue to violet. That is because that of which we are speaking, the time to work with the self, is the function and the only function of the indigo ray! This ray works completely within the self, and only upon the self. To find the discipline to spend time upon the self’s spiritual welfare is more of a challenge than finding the time to attend to another’s spiritual or bodily or emotional or mental welfare. We cannot stress enough the importance of this point. Think you that one of the highest of energies possible within the self, in terms of subtlety and strength, is somehow to take the very back seat, nay, even the trunk of the automobile of life? Please see and honor the instrument that you are, no matter what outward way you treat yourself, you love yourself, you give to yourself.

The first gift of the spiritual wayfarer is the time and the energy to move within, to work upon the discipline of the personality, that more and more of the personality may be imbued with the indigo ray of joyful accepting love of self. Consider the usual indigo ray of the underdeveloped student as a pool. The polarity of service to others fills this pool, but it is simply rain falling into a conserving receptacle, a still pool within one, until it has been enlivened by the acceptance of love that is beyond the possible love when judgment remains.

[3DMonkey]

I really should read Q'uo more often. I can see where we have been bumping heads. In all my reasonings above, I was solely concentrating on the use of the green Ray energy center. Period. In all my arguments, I was making the assumption that there were no orange Ray blockages. I still have much to learn about chakras within one entity.

So, with the understanding of my assumptions and focus and with my understanding of what "wisdom" really is, I stand by all that I have said.

If, in all Icaro's arguments, you were alluding to the need to release orange Ray blockages that prevent receiving and allowing self to flourish, I conceed. Again, I overlooked this as a possible aspect.

Here is some good stuff from your link. I hope Ankh reads it. (maybe I should paste it in her regression thread?). (Also, I still say that I can see how all these discussions/arguments correlate to raising the energy vibe of us all)

It is to be suggested by us that when one sees the heart fully open, one then may do well to suggest to the self the beauty of giving and receiving of love. The reception of love, it has been noted this day, is often very difficult. When the orange-ray center is blocked by self-judgment, then the shining love of others is blocked from entering the heart. Loving gestures, thoughts and words may batter against the heart closed to itself in vain. Until the entity is willing to open the door to comfort by ceasing to judge the self as unworthy of comfort, no comfort can move into effective service.
Thusly, service to others directly denotes the allowing of others to love the self. This is often the most difficult relationship lesson of all, for if one is not in love with the self, how can one believe or have trust and faith in the illuminating light and love pouring into one’s heart from another? There is no basis for trust, for the self is not willing to trust the self. It is an irony of the third and fourth-density illusions that more and more energy is consumed in the desire to love, to open the self to more and more complete service to others, while there remains the grudge against the self. It is as though each were running away from the self, throwing the self into as many seemingly good actions as possible, in an attempt to even the terribly lopsided score of unworthiness of the self.
However, worthiness is not a quantitative matter, and is not available to the point grading system. There is no amount of service one can be to others to offset one’s own self-judged lack of worth. Until one forgives and accepts the self, one’s service will be stunted; one’s heart will be darkened, even in the fullness of the most loving service. Perhaps this points to the centrality of the learning of self-nurturing ways.

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(( there's a good chance my throat chakra?, communication chakra?, is that blue? May be blocked))

(( please refrain from snide remarks under breath ))

[kycahi]

In the 3D, fear serves its primary purpose of preventing suicides when things go horribly wrong. A secondary purpose is as an opening to catalyst. If 3D entities aren't going to be nervous, anxious or scared, they won't get much benefit from catalysis and therefore won't accumulate such rich experiences that the One has grown used to from us.

Wisdom is the fifth level of consciousness in 3D entities, at least if we're lucky. If we don't gain wisdom over time, we really are just treading water. Do I describe myself as a wise one? Heck no, but I certainly am wiser now than I was at age 10, 20 or 30 and that wisdom was hard won. I didn't get it from a book or movie or TV, nor can I convey it through writing except maybe around one percent, tops.

So IMHO, the blue density comes after the green entity has been exhaustively compassionate and finally notices clues. Ra described their cluelessness and how they kept trying to do better at serving the wretches of this planet. Thank goodness they happened upon Don, Carla and Jim. :exclamation:

[native]

3DM - Sure, there have been elements of orange acceptance in my answers, but I have been speaking of integrating all energies in a unified fashion. I'm glad we are coming to some understandings.

As a person trying to unify love/wisdom, in 3d you exercise acceptance as much as possible while also being honest with those you are trying to serve. Because when you look at an other self, you truly see your self. To deny them honesty in favor of total acceptance is not the self being honest with the self you are interacting with.

Now, other selves will test our patience, understanding, and emotional strength among many many other things. As a 3d being, we accept this and work with it in service as much as possible. When lines are crossed, the self is neglected, or a certain level of control is trying to be exercised over you, you don't allow it. In this way you love your self. We all have our limits and capabilities, and we allow ourselves to understand that we cannot be perfect and that you cannot reflect total acceptance in all situations.

[3DMonkey]

I always considered that if I'm not being honest, I'm really not offering service to others. If I'm not honest, I'm fearful of who I am AND fearful of an outcome unknown.

I don't believe I've experienced orange ray blockage. I've certainly experienced a green ray type service to self though. I'm aware of it. I guess I'm the only one that needs to realize that about myself .

[native]

Mhm..to not be honest is really a disservice, because you are withholding truths and hindering progress. As always, there is a balance..as you don't want to throw anything in someone's face, or communicate information that they didn't ask for.

Another way to look at self love is to place the viewpoint outside of the self. We all have unique identities that are to be embraced. If two people are having issues and a person is less accepting of my characteristics, limits, capabilities, and needs, whose problem is that really? They are the one with blockages, unable to express acceptance and understanding. Am I to just always forfeit myself? There is an equal amount of responsibility on the other self to accept me just as much as I am responsible to accept them. Thus, there is a delicate balance of love/wisdom.

So from my reference in this example, as a balanced being I understand that they are in the process of learning and I give more of myself, bending my needs to help with their understanding while exercising acceptance. There is a limit though and you can literally feel when you realize you are compromising too much of yourself. You feel drained and you can feel the denial of self building. This typically happens when you aren't getting results, or it has compounded into being a situation that you don't want to be in. A good example of this is when people have expectations of us. We've all been there, especially with parents. As a loving person, you may just kind of go through the motions to please or be viewed in a positive light. All the while, you know you aren't being true to yourself. Over time you find yourself in a position that is a lie. You weren't being honest with others or yourself.

At this point, a balanced being will step back and own and nurture the self. Being able to love your self and recognizing when to embrace your needs is completely necessary, and a requirement for those on the path to unity.

That's why as a 6d being, if you have the opportunity to work with the personality behind the veil here in 3d, it is so valuable in measuring your ability to balance the love of self and other self. A being can be extremely compassionate willing to sacrifice its needs, which it is happy to do and is necessary in service, but it also knows when they have crossed over into an area of neglect.

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So IMHO, the blue density comes after the green entity has been exhaustively compassionate and finally notices clues. Ra described their cluelessness and how they kept trying to do better at serving the wretches of this planet.

Yes, there are compromising aspects to an overly compassionate person.

[zenmaster]

Then again, you can also be completely honest while not accepting yourself. And that is not a disservice. Go figure.

[native]

Ha..the absurdity of polarity.

[zenmaster]

Ha..the absurdity of polarity.

absurd as a 2 year old child that wants ice cream before dinner.