Mortality and Eternal Love

[Aion]

This is a bit of a heavy post, but I have been surrounding by these themes a lot lately and largely for my own need to express I'd like to share some internal content.

Today we found out one of our friends in Ireland whom we met on our trip there, and whom we instantly connected with, has passed away of her own volition. This is in the wake of the loss of her boyfriend a couple months ago which left her devastated. She was an incredibly bright, bubbly and talented individual, full of light and love to give out. They were only 25 years old, around the same age as my younger brother.

On this past Friday I went up to visit my Dad and my Oma whom is 87 now. She is remarkably independent for her age but has been diagnosed with the very early stages of dementia. All the time she talks about 'going home', and I reassure her that we'll all see each other again on the other side. She is ready to go and is basically just waiting it out. This last visit I made sure to say all that I needed to, just in case there isn't another one. She longs to be with her true love Roy (not my Opa who passed away from cancer) whom she was only able to be with for 3 years before he passed away.

She said to me, "Only God knows the time. It could be 20 years, it could be 20 minutes, we have no idea. All we can do is appreciate each moment as best we can." She has said that when she prays for herself the only thing she prays for is wisdom.

I have been seeing signs and messages that there would be a big event of change in March. After seeing my Oma, I felt maybe it was her time, I did not see the surprise the universe had in store.

There is a certain connection I have with entities that guide the dead, I have aided in the cross-over of numerous individuals, but it's always the hardest when it's someone I know personally. I have felt their presence over the last couple weeks, I knew something was coming but was still not prepared.

Love has a terrifying power of draw, of connection. When a lover is lost it is irreparable. Yet it is also beautiful the magnificence of its power. The way it moves entire civilizations. The way it goes beyond even the boundaries of life and death. To be willing to give up the body for love is an incredible self-sacrifice even if it is driven by despair.

Love hard, that is the nature of mortality, don't hold it off. Engage and appreciate every moment with those you love that you can because that mortal time is always limited.

Eventually, all of our bodies, being mortal, will give way, and yet the Eternal Love from which they arise will continue and the bonds that have formed in one body will echo to the next. Thus, the connections made in the past and here, now, are the framework for the weaving of the future, of future meetings and interactions. An ongoing Cloud Atlas.

Stay well and keep love in your hearts as often as you can. Blessings.

[Glow]

I love your perspective.

I am sorry for your loss.
I love what you share though.

You’ve worded it impeccably.

I was on a similar train of thought a few weeks ago.

I heard a sentence in a show.
“What is grief but love that persists”.

I had always said “love unexpressed” but google adds more

“ It's all the love you want to give, but cannot. All that unspent love gathers up in the corners of your eyes, the lump in your throat, and in that hollow part of your chest. Grief is just love with no place to go.” ― Jamie Anderson.”

“Perhaps the most painful kind of love is called grief, which happens when the object of a person's love is taken away with no hope for return. Grief is love and the confusion caused by not knowing how to love someone who is gone. “

If you look at the world like that. There really is so much love in the world. We just generally have so many distortions that slow the flow from one to another. Grief is everywhere, so is love. Hopefully as we step into 4D the distortions of separation lesson so we get better at letting it flow.

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As to that cloud atlas type love.
I understand, lived it, lost it. Is it initiation, a gift of those moments in unity/home/truth shared - just for the moments, or a gift of remembrance of the truth from outside the illusion.

To love so deep where all walls have dropped and the otherself is taken into full union with self.

To lose that experience feels like losing the only real part of all the illusion. When the realest part is experienced and lost, what is the rest but less real. Hard to word. I feel for your friend, and you Oma.

I’m certain it’s preincarnative to be offered this signpost from home.
Might be a step in reuniting with all creation.

Imagine, without veil, in oneness with all, that is our state. To find it here in flesh, while veiled, what a gift, no matter the pain that follows its loss.

It was found here in separation, the truth of unity so clear, self given up, for union so complete that in losing other, self was lost too.

Cloud atlas wise after my experience I now have dreams different faces, where I hug a stranger, and while hugging out of my mouth comes “I’ve missed you” as in the embrace you remember your heart knows them already. Home again, in flesh, veil lifted between two selves.

Not sure what that is.

Myself while here I guess work on lifting the veil the rest of the way. Find the whole truth, unity with all, I have time.

Sorry for your loss, i am with you,

Aion wrote

“ Love hard, that is the nature of mortality, don't hold it off. Engage and appreciate every moment with those you love that you can because that mortal time is always limited.”


thank you for sharing.
(((Hug)))

[Sacred Fool]

This is a bit of a heavy post, but I have been surrounding by these themes a lot lately and largely for my own need to express I'd like to share some internal content.

I can feel the heaviness, the density in your words.  I hope you're able to equilibrate soon enough.  I know it can feel quite taxing to be in such a state.

I've been working to balance some very challenging catalyst myself of late, stuff which is embedded down to the roots of my personality defensive structure.  The factors are very different what you describe, but there might be some overlap in the degree of vulnerability which just pops up uninvited can hold the floor for some duration.

I just want to pass along this one little thing.  I found that vulnerability can become a door and asking, "Where is the love in this?" can become a corridor.  When I chose to travel that way to see what I might find, I became happily surprised by what met me there.  Perhaps the same may happen for you?  In my case it was a deeply grounding insight ("in-feeling") into the universal need for love.
   

[flofrog]

Aion!
Your post is so beautiful despite the sorrow and loss.

There is nothing, exactly as you said, as incredible as powerful as that love that suddenly traverses us and leaves us completely in unknown extraordinary territory, and it does happen to all of us, how extraordinary is that.

[Diana]

I've been working to balance some very challenging catalyst myself of late, stuff which is embedded down to the roots of my personality defensive structure.  The factors are very different what you describe, but there might be some overlap in the degree of vulnerability which just pops up uninvited can hold the floor for some duration.

This is a very interesting insight and observation. I will say that this has come up for me as well, almost like finding dust in the corners where you thought you had already swept thoroughly. And  I see this in people around me as well.

I expect there is some energetic impetus at hand having to do with the transitioning energies from 3rd to 4th density. When I look back on life, these energies of change seem to come in waves.

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I don't know about "eternal love" in the sense of a mate, but I know about losing a loved one. For me, the loss never goes away; i am here, the loved one is not; there is no getting around that. But again, for me, I see this as part of my lot here, and if I am to complete my own picture, my own story, my own mission, then I must bear the loss and go on.

However, we all make our exits from this reality, in one way or another. Many have exited through Covid. Many exit from cancer. Some exit peacefully in their sleep. Some exit because they can't bear the pain of this reality. And maybe entities travel here together so when one exits, the other follows.

I know of a very interesting exit. My sister had a best friend who died of a brain tumor. The friend had 3 kids, and an ex-husband who lived in another state. When she actually died, the ex-husband died as well—on the same day—from something totally unrelated and unexpected. It seems obvious that they "left" together. 

[Ymarsakar]

"I have been seeing signs and messages that there would be a big event of change in March."

I can confirm that. I've already seen it in Vedic astrology and recently my tarot draws.

"I expect there is some energetic impetus at hand having to do with the transitioning energies from 3rd to 4th density."

From my analysis, it is a sub octave shift. 4.4 to 4.5 or 4.3 to 4.4

An individual would be farther down the decimal versions. So they would be working on potentially all 7 chakras. But usually 3 (base) and 1 higher. Q'uo mentioned "initiation" stages and described how they would look like. These are the overall final tests, so to speak, but there are mid terms and quizzes along the way.

So an entity has to check their survival reflex and instincts, how much food and resources they have. Then they can focus on using the heart to power their sacral relationships. Then they can use the heart to look at how to cultivate the solar chakra. Then they can use the heart to open the heart. Then the heart to open up the voice chakra.

This is different for each individual, for each region, for each civilization, for each world, and for each universe. They can be at different sub octaves in the greater octave.

For example, someone that is operating at the overall 3rd density pov, is using their solar chakra to develop their root (survival) and sacral (relationships). They still have potential access to the heart and higher chakras, such as intuition, but they will primarily be unlocking their base chakras using only the 3rd chakra pov. This could be a stock broker that is only interested in the ambition of gaining money. They use their intuition to make good judgment calls to trade stocks better. They care about other people, but not to the point of any real sacrifice. They try to teach stock trading to others, so that other people can raise their economic, red, and solar chakras.

In Music, there are different octaves and tempos. The same note can exist on higher or lower scales.

To a musician, 12 chakra/dimensions are easier to comprehend, since it includes the black keys on the piano. For someone that merely uses the 8 or 9 chakra system, the octave system is easier to visualize.

[flofrog]

I just want to pass along this one little thing.  I found that vulnerability can become a door and asking, "Where is the love in this?" can become a corridor.  When I chose to travel that way to see what I might find, I became happily surprised by what met me there.  Perhaps the same may happen for you?  In my case it was a deeply grounding insight ("in-feeling") into the universal need for love.
   

I feel this is so truthful to who we all are.

[AnthroHeart]

I am sorry for your loss Aion.

[Raukura Waihaha]

Life is a lesson for what is eternal.
I've spent a lot of time feeling like things need to be fixed or healed but recently I've started accepting that some things happen so we can experience complete helplessness and surrender.
I think it's poetic and profound to have found a love that is irreplaceable and she is lucky.
I hope you find peace bro

[meadow-foreigner]

We Love You'All. Keep this in mind: ♡ ♥ ღ ლ??❤️????

[Dtris]

Thanks for sharing Aion. I am sorry for your loss. It is always difficult when someone decides to leave in that manner. I have been engrossed in some similar themes but slightly different due to my own circumstances with family. As hard as it is to watch them go, it helps me to remember that ultimately they have eternal life, and there are no mistakes. Adonai.