03-06-2017, 06:09 AM
(This post was last modified: 03-06-2017, 06:18 AM by Agua del Cielo.)
i have a slightly different view on this:
for me its not so much about men and women.
for me its more about feminine and masculine energy and "principles".
Patriarchy in my opinion derived from the oppression of the female energy or principle.
our Culture and society is still heavily biased towards male energy.
It is a very lengthy and difficult process to overcome and balance this, it is not to be expected overnight i fear.
i think it's not only about overcoming the obvious injustice, men aus well as women are being called to change on a very deep and substancial level.
Apart from that i think we are mostly not observing male and female energy at work, wie are observing the unconscious and unhealed masculine and feminine at work.
I am a man, which doesnt tell much.
i have been hurt to the extreme by unconscious women and men in my life, hard to tell, which was more severe.
I have come to a point, where i heal and develop the feminine principle in me more and more. to develop and experience this is my birthright as a human being, it is not at all reserved for women.
Much slower i come to a point where i heal and develop the Male energy in me. When healed from all its wounds, the Male Energy is something very warm,beautiful and caring; that was a real surprise for me.
I have still a very long way to go, very much to heal, but a beginning is made.
There is no better or worse, both are integral parts of our very being and we should heal and develop both.
To the "sexual attraction":
Most of my friends are women. I guess its because i get along better with the female energy, i usually have a problem with head-heavy people. so its basically the energetic quality which attracts me.
Still i am sometimes attracted on a sexual level. mostly not by my female friends,but other woman, but it also happened with friends.
I dont find it necessary or appropriate to Act it out in any way, much more since i am in a relationship. But i can See nothing wrong with the Energy arising in me.
Maybe its because connecting sexually with a person was one of the very First things i "learned" in my life, maybe it has other reasons.
But it just is. And i can see no de-humanization in it.
edit:
i couldnt be bothered to read the linked blog, since already the title was quite deterring...
for me its not so much about men and women.
for me its more about feminine and masculine energy and "principles".
Patriarchy in my opinion derived from the oppression of the female energy or principle.
our Culture and society is still heavily biased towards male energy.
It is a very lengthy and difficult process to overcome and balance this, it is not to be expected overnight i fear.
i think it's not only about overcoming the obvious injustice, men aus well as women are being called to change on a very deep and substancial level.
Apart from that i think we are mostly not observing male and female energy at work, wie are observing the unconscious and unhealed masculine and feminine at work.
I am a man, which doesnt tell much.
i have been hurt to the extreme by unconscious women and men in my life, hard to tell, which was more severe.
I have come to a point, where i heal and develop the feminine principle in me more and more. to develop and experience this is my birthright as a human being, it is not at all reserved for women.
Much slower i come to a point where i heal and develop the Male energy in me. When healed from all its wounds, the Male Energy is something very warm,beautiful and caring; that was a real surprise for me.
I have still a very long way to go, very much to heal, but a beginning is made.
There is no better or worse, both are integral parts of our very being and we should heal and develop both.
To the "sexual attraction":
Most of my friends are women. I guess its because i get along better with the female energy, i usually have a problem with head-heavy people. so its basically the energetic quality which attracts me.
Still i am sometimes attracted on a sexual level. mostly not by my female friends,but other woman, but it also happened with friends.
I dont find it necessary or appropriate to Act it out in any way, much more since i am in a relationship. But i can See nothing wrong with the Energy arising in me.
Maybe its because connecting sexually with a person was one of the very First things i "learned" in my life, maybe it has other reasons.
But it just is. And i can see no de-humanization in it.
edit:
i couldnt be bothered to read the linked blog, since already the title was quite deterring...