Helping sorrow

[AnthroHeart]

Love really helps me with my sorrow. Not even human love, but a higher love.

[Splash]

"You can help others once you are safe, secure and successful in your own life. Practically every successful person you know of is successful, in part, because they moved the destructive and disruptive people out of their lives. Successful people carefully manage their energy and associations; they are gatekeepers. Who you allow into your life, mind and heart are among the most important decisions you will ever make. Take inventory of the people with whom you spend the most time. Who you spend your time with is who you are, or who you will soon become. Limit your exposure to unhealthy and unsupportive people. Love yourself enough to say no to people who diminish your chances for a beautiful and empowered life. Sometimes you have to get away from what you know to discover what you don't know. It is time for the abuse, control, lies and negativity to end. Align yourself with a new tribe of healthy people who are supportive of your highest good and potential. Find the people who are living the positive lifestyle you wish for yourself and who share your values, and create a new family of friends that you can call, "home." Your new positive and supportive tribe will edify you, strengthen you and empower you to serve others in ways you would have never before imagined. Taking care of yourself is the most powerful way to begin to take care of others. It is not too late for you. It is never too late to begin loving yourself again. It is never too late to have the life you deserve. Healing for everyone begins with self-love — starting right now."

— Bryant McGill

[Minyatur]

I spoke with my sister yesterday. She says she is often hearing voices since she is little from times to times. The voices usually say things about her she become convinced other people has been saying from around her.

Can an external person do something about this or is she the only one able to cast them away? Prior to this I felt a presence in her room to which I tried to channel love to but the entity seemed to remain there anyway. She says she hear no voices when outside this town.

[AnthroHeart]

I spoke with my sister yesterday. She says she is often hearing voices since she is little from times to times. The voices usually say things about her she become convinced other people has been saying from around her.

Can an external person do something about this or is she the only one able to cast them away? Prior to this I felt a presence in her room to which I tried to channel love to but the entity seemed to remain there anyway. She says she hear no voices when outside this town.

It is *your* reality, so shift yourself to a reality where you are experiencing what you want to experience.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=38khp3UkWIw

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=90ksUb9C-3E

[Minyatur]

I spoke with my sister yesterday. She says she is often hearing voices since she is little from times to times. The voices usually say things about her she become convinced other people has been saying from around her.

Can an external person do something about this or is she the only one able to cast them away? Prior to this I felt a presence in her room to which I tried to channel love to but the entity seemed to remain there anyway. She says she hear no voices when outside this town.

It is *your* reality, so shift yourself to a reality where you are experiencing what you want to experience.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=38khp3UkWIw

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=90ksUb9C-3E

I tried to tell her that but she is not very spiritual nor does she have really any beliefs in anything.

[AnthroHeart]

I spoke with my sister yesterday. She says she is often hearing voices since she is little from times to times. The voices usually say things about her she become convinced other people has been saying from around her.

Can an external person do something about this or is she the only one able to cast them away? Prior to this I felt a presence in her room to which I tried to channel love to but the entity seemed to remain there anyway. She says she hear no voices when outside this town.

It is *your* reality, so shift yourself to a reality where you are experiencing what you want to experience.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=38khp3UkWIw

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=90ksUb9C-3E

I tried to tell her that but she is not very spiritual nor does she have really any beliefs in anything.

I don't think it takes *her* belief for *you* to switch to a reality where she is better. But it probably would be a bit more tricky if the vibration of that reality is so far away from what you currently experience/believe is possible.

[Steppingfeet]

How do you help people who are full of sorrow and cannot see light. I've been called multiple times in my life to help persons like that who are not good with themselves nor the world around them and I'm always clueless and powerless in my attempts to help.

By "help" do you mean solve the problem or learn the lesson for them? Or do you mean you offer help/assistance, they subsequently become happier?

I have friends and family members in similar cocoons of pain and sorrow. Like you, I often feel I have no power to help them return to a state of well being, strength, and joy. Words often feel so useless. And I am left to bear witness to their sense of being lost in the depths of separation.

So instead of trying to offer perspective, or analyzing their situation with them, or discussing strategies, I often simply focus on finding little ways to communicate basic messages of: I care; you are not alone; you are loved; you are needed; you are important to me.

Prayer, visualization, and silent emanation of love/light for the other self are very effective ways of expressing this.

Also, random, proactive, self-initiated actions are a good way to express this. Make a random call just to say you are thinking about them. Mail them a random... I don't know... frozen Chipotle burrito because you know they love Chipotle. Give them a random hug if you're able. Offer to go on a walk if they live nearby, or to Skype to show them your latest break dance move if not. Small things.

We all have processes we must move through, processes put into motion by our clumsy, uninformed use of free will. Those processes are confusing, sometimes terrifying, often labyrinthic, and can deplete the resources, the vision, the strength, and the will & faith of the self. I think if we can simply help others feel connected and loved - not necessarily solving the problem for them, or providing the key insight, but helping to foster a sense of their belonging, I think we help to create an environment that strengthens their ability to move through their own process; indeed, an environment that helps them face, own, accept, and use their catalyst.

More than this we often cannot do.

17.2 Ra: It is impossible to help another being directly. It is only possible to make catalyst available in whatever form, the most important being the radiation of realization of oneness with the Creator from the self, less important being information such as we share with you.

[Minyatur]

How do you help people who are full of sorrow and cannot see light. I've been called multiple times in my life to help persons like that who are not good with themselves nor the world around them and I'm always clueless and powerless in my attempts to help.

By "help" do you mean solve the problem or learn the lesson for them? Or do you mean you offer help/assistance, they subsequently become happier?

I have friends and family members in similar cocoons of pain and sorrow. Like you, I often feel I have no power to help them return to a state of well being, strength, and joy. Words often feel so useless. And I am left to bear witness to their sense of being lost in the depths of separation.

So instead of trying to offer perspective, or analyzing their situation with them, or discussing strategies, I often simply focus on finding little ways to communicate basic messages of: I care; you are not alone; you are loved; you are needed; you are important to me.

Prayer, visualization, and silent emanation of love/light for the other self are very effective ways of expressing this.

Also, random, proactive, self-initiated actions are a good way to express this. Make a random call just to say you are thinking about them. Mail them a random... I don't know... frozen Chipotle burrito because you know they love Chipotle. Give them a random hug if you're able. Offer to go on a walk if they live nearby, or to Skype to show them your latest break dance move if not. Small things.

We all have processes we must move through, processes put into motion by our clumsy, uninformed use of free will. Those processes are confusing, sometimes terrifying, often labyrinthic, and can deplete the resources, the vision, the strength, and the will & faith of the self. I think if we can simply help others feel connected and loved - not necessarily solving the problem for them, or providing the key insight, but helping to foster a sense of their belonging, I think we help to create an environment that strengthens their ability to move through their own process; indeed, an environment that helps them face, own, accept, and use their catalyst.

More than this we often cannot do.

17.2 Ra: It is impossible to help another being directly. It is only possible to make catalyst available in whatever form, the most important being the radiation of realization of oneness with the Creator from the self, less important being information such as we share with you.

Your response does speak to me, I've tried speaking of too many things to my sister today and she said I simly made her head spin off. I guess the best thing to do is simply to wish for the best with a good heart and the rest will come along.

It's just that there'll come a point where she'll end up killing herself if things do not change. But I do think she is a STO soul that is here to experience negativity to better understand it. She doesn't like herself because she doesn't like how negativity makes her act. Through acceptance of self in this life, I do believe acceptance of many other-selves will follow.