Relationships and Choosing a Partner

[Monica]

Not sure really I just can't imagine it very easily, can't imagine the type of girl I could get serious with. I feel like I wouldn't be committed to a real relationship, I need my alone time to so unless I meet a girl I really love I doubt I would want to even spend much time with them.

I guess the best way to put it is, I don't feel like I would learn anything from it. Me having no desire for something means there is no point in me having desire for it as I do not need to experience it to learn any lessons for my evolution.

Well of course! That's very common for Saggitarians!

My suggestion: Relax. A monogamous relationship is but one of many possible paths. It's not the only one. And Saggitarians are generally less likely to be drawn to it.

An astrologer friend explained to me that those with Saggitarious Sun sign typically have many partners but generally don't feel comfortable committing to a monogamous relationship. It's just not in their nature, unless they have some other strong influences that counteract the Sun sign. (He was careful to emphasize that Saggitarians CAN and DO make wonderful marriage partners if they really want to! But they shouldn't feel guilty if they realize marriage just isn't for them.)

Most Saggitarians I know are single.

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So yes, lately I have been getting the feeling that it simply isn't meant for me in this lifetime.
It feels quite freeing, to be honest

Are you a Saggitarius too?

[AnthroHeart]

I'm a Gemini, but I don't know really anything about my sign. Guess I could study, and see. I think I'm an air sign. My mind can be very flighty at times. Don't know how Gemini's work in relationships. Gemini happens to be my favorite sign because of the name.

[Monica]

I'm a Gemini, but I don't know really anything about my sign. Guess I could study, and see. I think I'm an air sign. My mind can be very flighty at times. Don't know how Gemini's work in relationships. Gemini happens to be my favorite sign because of the name.

I don't know anything about Gemini as pertains to relationships. I just know that every time I meet someone in their 40s or 50s who's had lots of boyfriends/girlfriends but has never been married, I always ask if they're Sag and 90% of the time they are.

[Meerie]

Lol no I am a pisces

[Sagittarius]

Not sure really I just can't imagine it very easily, can't imagine the type of girl I could get serious with. I feel like I wouldn't be committed to a real relationship, I need my alone time to so unless I meet a girl I really love I doubt I would want to even spend much time with them.

I guess the best way to put it is, I don't feel like I would learn anything from it. Me having no desire for something means there is no point in me having desire for it as I do not need to experience it to learn any lessons for my evolution.

Well of course! That's very common for Saggitarians!

My suggestion: Relax. A monogamous relationship is but one of many possible paths. It's not the only one. And Saggitarians are generally less likely to be drawn to it.

An astrologer friend explained to me that those with Saggitarious Sun sign typically have many partners but generally don't feel comfortable committing to a monogamous relationship. It's just not in their nature, unless they have some other strong influences that counteract the Sun sign. (He was careful to emphasize that Saggitarians CAN and DO make wonderful marriage partners if they really want to! But they shouldn't feel guilty if they realize marriage just isn't for them.)

Most Saggitarians I know are single.

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So yes, lately I have been getting the feeling that it simply isn't meant for me in this lifetime.
It feels quite freeing, to be honest

Are you a Saggitarius too?

My sun sign is Taurus

Moon sign is Sagittarius.

I don't worry about it at all now. It was the source for a lot of my catalyst in high school/the years straight after. I mean one of my big concerns in highschool was to have sex with a girl and you can imagine how weird it felt to finally do that but instead of becoming addicted to it like my friends I felt no urge whatsoever to do it again.

It wasn't because I was nervous or in-experienced as I have had sex a few times in the past 1 and a bit years, the last time being 5 months ago. If catalyst leads me towards another sexual encounter then so be it but I doubt it will be with a girl I do not love truly.

[native]

Not sure really I just can't imagine it very easily, can't imagine the type of girl I could get serious with. I feel like I wouldn't be committed to a real relationship, I need my alone time to so unless I meet a girl I really love I doubt I would want to even spend much time with them.

I guess the best way to put it is, I don't feel like I would learn anything from it. Me having no desire for something means there is no point in me having desire for it as I do not need to experience it to learn any lessons for my evolution.

Hmm, interesting. Perhaps you're not looking in the right place? Watch out for that self love. There is this though.."The fifth-density Wanderer is one who is not tremendously affected by the stimulus of the various rays of other-self and in its own way offers itself when a need is seen."

What is it you feel you have to offer others? Not in terms of a relationship. Sorry to ask personal questions..I understand if you don't want to comment.

[Monica]

My sun sign is Taurus

Moon sign is Sagittarius.

How funny, me too! Taurus Sun, Sag Moon.

This means that we came from the Sag Sun, so our inherent disposition is to not be monogamous. (Our current Moon is where we came from, so saith the astrologer.) In my case, my Taurus Sun has led me to a monogamous relationship, because that is what I wanted/needed to experience next, after having been Sag before. But it would equally make sense, if I hadn't gone in that direction. The pull of the Moon can be quite strong. (But then, the pull of the Sun is stronger.)

I don't worry about it at all now. It was the source for a lot of my catalyst in high school/the years straight after. I mean one of my big concerns in highschool was to have sex with a girl and you can imagine how weird it felt to finally do that but instead of becoming addicted to it like my friends I felt no urge whatsoever to do it again.

Interesting. I suspect there might be more components to that, which might reveal themselves upon reflection. (Not knowing your background I have nothing to offer in this regard.)

It wasn't because I was nervous or in-experienced as I have had sex a few times in the past 1 and a bit years, the last time being 5 months ago. If catalyst leads me towards another sexual encounter then so be it but I doubt it will be with a girl I do not love truly.

Love is always good! And sex gets more interesting and fulfilling when there's love connected to it. So letting love be your guide sounds like a good idea! You just might be in for quite a treat!

[Liet]

Been sitting here for a good while wondering what to reply. I think I'm quite a balanced individual. I've only encountered one girl that is balanced at my level. Then I mean balance between feminine/maskuline. Our cultural standards for dating is not made for that I think.

I wouldnt say having fairly balanced Male/Female energies is a rarity in sweden.. or atleast up north.
I've met a few ppl whos mainly YellowOrange/Lightblue, or Yellow/Green.. idk about lime though, i'm not that good at analyzing behaviour, voice, apperance and such (as i still cant see other ppl's auras).

For me its not enough with someone having their Male/Female energies balanced, the Roots-to-Crown ratio also has to be considered...
Dont wanna find someone whos living up in the clouds and never renew, nor someone whos incoherent.

[Aureus]

Been sitting here for a good while wondering what to reply. I think I'm quite a balanced individual. I've only encountered one girl that is balanced at my level. Then I mean balance between feminine/maskuline. Our cultural standards for dating is not made for that I think.

I wouldnt say having fairly balanced Male/Female energies is a rarity in sweden.. or atleast up north.
I've met a few ppl whos mainly YellowOrange/Lightblue, or Yellow/Green.. idk about lime though, i'm not that good at analyzing behaviour, voice, apperance and such (as i still cant see other ppl's auras).

For me its not enough with someone having their Male/Female energies balanced, the Roots-to-Crown ratio also has to be considered...
Dont wanna find someone whos living up in the clouds and never renew, nor someone whos incoherent.

Ah, I see what you mean. Compared to the rest of the world, the people are probably generally more balanced in m/f here.

I am still higher in crown(head in the clouds), but it has gotten better recently. I've started to work out, and decided that I'll find my strength from within, not governed by the very distracting feeds from all kinds of alternative media concerning all these supposed "mass arrests, divine interventions etc"..