What exactly happened to Don Elkins?

[J.W.]

Oh you of so little faith. As if the Finite Universe has only ONE way.  

I do think the world is much better off than it would have been if Carla stayed a librarian and had a house full of kids, as she desired. So it's all perfect. Their job was to acquire this information, and in that respect Don's compass needle didn't sway.

For being a seeker you sure seem to already know the answers. If you don't want answers to your questions then why post?

To your actual question. You make a lot of assumptions about people who you never met and based on a bunch of internet stories and speculation based on a book of channeled information. All of your speculation, and anyone else's, is meaningless. Learn what you can from the material, and learn what you can from their personal recollections. Debating over their purity or love or ray activation or moral inferiority/superiority is a waste of time and is not helpful to anyone.

When is it up to you to decide what is helpful or not helpful for others?