05-18-2022, 03:46 PM
Malajube, this is a very generalised reply and may not be of much assistance. You're standing on the outside of this situation, looking inwards, and that's a useful thing, but maybe not where you will find a solution. You may need to go one step further and stand within the larger system of which this problem is a part. From there you are more likely to see solutions. However, discovering what that larger system is a personal quest because the process of discovery is a part of the solution.