Singles / Dating

[jacrob]

In a channelling by Joshiah I recall him saying if you want a relationship you must be very specific in your wants and needs. He said that often we attract partners who are not compatible because we don't take the time to think about what it is we want.

He suggested making a list of the attributes you want in a partner, a list that no one else will see (lest you be made to feel your wants and needs are superficial etc) and to then go about visualising this / day dreaming it with as much emotion as you can.

I can vouch for it's efficacy. An exact reproduction of my perfect partner materialised within a couple of months of making my list.

It does work. However I left out one very important point in my list....that although there is an intense reciprocal attraction, that it then not be to a level where you are both intimidated by each other because of the perceived perfection. So neither party is capable of comfortably approaching the other.

Now my Higher Self has hijacked this potential person of my dreams and is utilising it for further catalyst. Making me realise my power, learning to love myself unconditionally and building confidence.

My BFF says we are like stones polishing each other into gems. Because I want a perfect relationship, and I want my partner to be perfect, I must wait until we reach the minimum requirement. I'm just going with the flow now. One thing I wont allow is another mediocre relationship. I'd rather be single!

Anyway my point after all that is a list and visualising does work.....