(09-18-2012, 03:33 PM)turtledude23 Wrote: ...to accept anything you need to control the part of you which doesn't want to accept it, and to control anything you need to accept the part of you which wants to control...
Not at all. I just work on accepting everything as is. This work does not require control, it requires releasing control.
(09-18-2012, 03:33 PM)turtledude23 Wrote: ...where as blind acceptance causes me to feel hopeless.
That could simply be because you have expectations.
But I'm not in your shoes. So what do I know?
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