Relationships and Choosing a Partner

[Meerie]

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I have a feeling I'am not meant to be in a relationship, I don't think I really want to to be honest.

Why is that?

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Not sure really I just can't imagine it very easily, can't imagine the type of girl I could get serious with. I feel like I wouldn't be committed to a real relationship, I need my alone time to so unless I meet a girl I really love I doubt I would want to even spend much time with them.

I guess the best way to put it is, I don't feel like I would learn anything from it. Me having no desire for something means there is no point in me having desire for it as I do not need to experience it to learn any lessons for my evolution.

Similar here... previously, for some time I thought I "should" be in a relationship, because, hey everyone does it
but it never really worked out. I felt more crappy in my relationships than I am when I am alone. So unless I don't find someone to truly relate to, on a soul level, I don't see the point in being with someone, simply to "have someone" or because people would think I am weird for being alone.
Interestingly enough I am also surrounded by two dysfunctional couples in my neighborhood, whom I hear yelling at each other from time to time, and each time I think "gosh I am glad I don't have to deal with that crap!"
So yes, lately I have been getting the feeling that it simply isn't meant for me in this lifetime.
It feels quite freeing, to be honest

It's the same thing with cellphones - everyone has one, but doesn't mean I need one, too.