06-15-2012, 01:50 PM
Most do not follow their heart, they follow appearances, money, similar tastes, etc.
My strengths,weaknesses are matched to my wife. This is something I realized years down the road, we work great as an actual team. This is also natural.
It would not work if I tried to find a person that matched me in similarity, which is also what most do. Then we would both have the same weaknesses, relying on outside help to fill the gaps.
I think many will find someone that has the exact same tastes as a way to reinforce self image. If they do not feel complete or "whole", they may try to find more of the same thinking that same makes a whole.
My strengths,weaknesses are matched to my wife. This is something I realized years down the road, we work great as an actual team. This is also natural.
It would not work if I tried to find a person that matched me in similarity, which is also what most do. Then we would both have the same weaknesses, relying on outside help to fill the gaps.
I think many will find someone that has the exact same tastes as a way to reinforce self image. If they do not feel complete or "whole", they may try to find more of the same thinking that same makes a whole.
(06-15-2012, 12:45 PM)Oceania Wrote: don't squander it by intellectualizing it. just fall in love. we can't decide who we fall in love with.Well yes, many fall into the hook of lust as well, and it can be such a strong feeling it is mistaken for love. It blurs vision and can even make people appear nuts.
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