forgiveness, what does it really mean

[Lulu]

Help?

There are lots of kinds of what appear to be help:

There is the "help" where people project their own issues.

There is the "help" where some share an experience of their own, so that someone can broaden (or narrow!) perspective.

There is the kind of "help" where others rescue and save others, while they are drowning themselves.

There is the kind of call for "help" where one asks a question in order to put it out to the universe knowing the answer will most likely come from the clarity of the not "help". LOL (that's most often mine)

There is the "help" that is real, it is a pure mirror. Those on the other end might feel they are being mocked or that the other is being sarcastic to them.