12-27-2009, 07:48 AM
Communication is a difficult thing, especially with the silly, normalized words we use. But we have nothing else for direct communication! Your abusive landlord has nothing else too, yet we all talk on many levels. Through vibration/feelings/intention. It is a pity we rely so much on these words, so that we become blind to the small subtle other parts communication. "Don't shoot the messenger." and in every case words themselves are the messenger. Don't depend too much on them. 
If you feel better away from that person, then so it is. And perhaps the less one relies on face to face distance and direct words to mend yourself the easier you can forgive this person, when words fail...
If you feel better away from that person, then so it is. And perhaps the less one relies on face to face distance and direct words to mend yourself the easier you can forgive this person, when words fail...