The Quest for a Soulmate

[Monica]

I've had this romantic idea, and perhaps I still do, that there exists this one mate for me. *My* mate. I know how stupid this idea is, because I also understand that seeking the Creator is what is important. I wish seriously and only to become one with the Creator, and to be in this *union with the Creator*. When it's done, I would care less if I would be alone, or with *the* mate, or *a* mate.

Until *that* union occurs though, I still have this stupid, romantic idea of meeting *the* mate, when I will have the lightnings shooting out of my brain, telling me: "Wwwooooaaaa! I didn't think that *he* was incarnated!"

I don't think that's stupid at all. Maybe you feel that way because you know that person is out there somewhere, and when the time is right, you will meet. You probably already agreed to it on the soul level.

Suggestion: Try simultaneously releasing any attachment to finding your mate, while also being proactive to attracting him. (Send out the signal psychically.) Key here is to simultaneously release and create; create without attachment.