2007.03.25 The Female Orgasm

[Monica]

I've got something for discussion. It's the sort of thing that, as a man, I find myself quite unqualified to answer. But it is something that I wonder about.

We all know the joke some (not all) women make about men coming to orgasm too quickly. As near as I can tell in my own experience, a sexually skilled woman can bring a man to orgasm in a very short time, and there isn't all that much he could to to stop it, even if he wanted.

Now what I wonder about is if for women who still fear intimacy with men, might they be subconsciously engaging in sexual behaviors which rapidly bring men to climax, so as to avoid feeling the fear of intimacy?

I ask because, in my experience, the women who I have observed most often complaining about their partner's sexual performance are the same ones who strike me as those types who would wield their sexual power over men in an attempt to control them.

Being a man, I wouldn't really know. But I figured this to be the best place I know of to find some female voices of wisdom.

Astute.

Taoism states that "women have the power." Might this be what they were referring to?