Do I not have the right to be in STO?

[Diana]

I never seek to impose agreement, on the contrary I rarely find it. As to what you mean by attachment to outcome I am confused.

I did not mean to say that YOU are attached to outcomes, rather that that would be the line which is crossed in "helping" others. If you are not attached, great.

Attachment to outcome is having a vested interest in whether or not the person you are speaking to follows your advice. It can simply be because you care, and want to help, but it still is attachment. (I don't mean "you" in particular, but "you" in the general sense of anybody.)