The Quest for a Soulmate

[Diana]

3D humans have an instinct to nest. Until we evolve past our primal brains, we will continue to crave a mate. We also have catalyst to grow. Strong initial attractions may be the resonance of catalyst. Each individual attracting the other for specific lessons.

My advice is to stay focused on self, and by that I mean the evolution of self, whatever your specific path is. If you need, you will attract need. You can succumb to the need and work out lessons with various "mates." The other way to deal with need is to work on the self, evolve self by focusing on inner growth.

In the meantime, with respect and gratitude and politeness, you can have affairs with whomever you hook up with to satisfy the needs of closeness and sexuality and kind exchanges of energy. A true mate will appear at the right time, but don't focus on that, don't lose sight of the true goal--evolution of self. Perhaps a soul mate, or twin flame, is out there waiting for you to evolve a little so that you resonate. I don't think our first purpose would be to find a soul mate--that would seem like icing on the cake. The cake is to fulfill a mission or blue print.

Kahlil Gibran said in response to marriage: The pillars of the temple stand apart. So, become a pillar; work on yourself. A soul mate (another pillar) will come.