The Quest for a Soulmate

[BlatzAdict]

when we think of a soulmate we always think we are going to meet that person who is going to make every aspect of our lives perfect or whole in some way. but this is not the case, nor will it ever be. It's just wishful thinking.

Soulmates are the ones who we make the contract with pre incarnationally so that we will be able to inspire the greatest amounts of catalyst for learning than we would with anyone else.

So unfortunately to break it to you, sometimes this is the one person in your life who you love so much sometimes, and other times you wanna just get the hell away. But to understand is to realize the test is what you do in the stress. What actions will you take, how much will you trust in yourself to come through each moment of agonizing catalyst and come out okay. Or rather how well can you trust yourself to be okay, your soul mates will put you through the test.

From what you've said shawnna, it seems those 3 long term relationships definately struck some chords with you. Learning to reconcile is definately more important in the long run, or you might find yourself having had multiple lives with those partners just trying to resolve the same karmic issues.

fifty9sound has the right idea.. how to create the perfect love.. how to love that baby even tho he's mashing his little tiny fingers in your face, how to love yourself enough to love those that stumble and help em back up. So many things. So much to study.. so much to learn, so much to love.