Asking for examples of manifesting

[W1981]

I think you can manifest positive stuff in your life with positive thinking/intent.

Since I was 15-16 i wanted to leave my country of origin and go study in the UK, I aspired having a BSc, MSc and PhD by the time I was 25ish and while aspiring all this I was thiking that I didn't want to do my (compulsory) military service back in Greece cause it was a way of being enslaved for a year or so. It so happened, that I finished both my BSca and MSc in the UK, one after the other, and finally managed to get accepted for a 3 year Phd after a one year break (I was not so keen about that year off). So my plans worked out with a one year delay up to that point. In those years I also, at different times, thought it would be nice to live in Athens, Greece for sometime as I love this city. And, at the end of the 2nd year of my PhD I visited Amsterdam and thought it was a great place to possibly move to for a while if I could ever get the chance. Strangely enough, finishing the practical work within my PhD, I spent a year in my hometown and then moved to Athens for work for another year. I left Athens after getting accepted for work within a University in the Netherlands and moved to Rotterdam, literally one hour away from Amsterdam by train.I have lived here for over 2.5 years now.

Did I mention I am 30 and still haven't done my military service yet? Did I also mention that this situation can now be legalised if you can prove that you live and work abroad?Done that too so I don't see me being "harvested" for military service any time soon.

So yeah, if you have strong feelings about something I really do believe you can manifest it. But now I got a question and a problem:

Has anybody manifested a boyfriend/girlfriend for a stable long-term relationship ever? I been at it with positive thinking for the last 8-9 years but my affairs are both limited and short lived, never flourish into anything deep, with the exception of a very recent 7 month relationship :@. If anyone's gotta a way of manifesting a soul mate PLEASE BE KIND ENOUGH TO GIVE GUIDELINES

Secondly, I feel like I've reached a point (possibly after awakening or feeling I may have been awakened) where i really do not know what I want to do with my life or where I want to move to, or even if I want to move anywhere else. It now feels that everything is stale and I'm getting restless, feeling out of tune more and more. Any advice on that would be appreciated.

Well hope my first paragraph answers your question, but if anybody could care to read on and answer mine I'd be happy (ier?)
Good day to all