Do you Share this Information to Others Often?

[kycahi]

I prefer to keep this to myself, but sometimes I bring it up very indirectly. For example I might say, "As a matter of fact, I've been studying some stuff that I won't go into except to say that it indicates that someone like you might blah blah." I would do this as a way to encourage or to make the person feel not alone or "way out in left field" because of some recent thoughts or puzzling life events.

Even if the person asks about the material, I will dismiss it by saying, "We can talk more about it later, I just was pointing out that you blah blah." If the person does ask about it later, I'll let go of a few more details and see where that goes. I don't want to keep Ra secret, like only I'm entitled to the info, just don't want to push it into deaf ears.

My first choice in such a conversation would be straightforward, like "Have you considered that maybe you blah blah?" I bring up the outside source when I think the person might think I'm being nosy or more personally intruding somehow. It's a judgment call.