Difficulties with restriction of personality

[ayadew]

Hello Questioner. Thank you for your post.

My 'mindfulness' tells me that this whole situation originates from that I am stuck in the drama of this world, and that I do not see the spark of the creator in this person, and that I have forgotten that all is well.
I would wish to resolve this issue with her, but if she does not wish it, I don't want to force it.
Then I'd like to accept this, and for all similar confrontations in the future, that we love each other deeply even though we do not realize this in this body/personality.