02-08-2012, 08:13 PM
Umm the way you describe things not working out with that girl brought me back to a time I went through a very similar situation. Sometimes the point is to not know what anything means. You can never know anyway, until after the fact.
You might learn in the future she's totally not your type and is shallow, or you don't get along, or lots of crazy things could happen. Is she sleeping as far as the world goes? Does she know how you feel about her? How well do you know each other?
Maybe you should just yell it at her, get it off your chest. Stare fear in the face and go... hey this is me. this is who i am and this is what i feel.
... Or you can say nothing and find a reason to define it later. Either way as long as your thinking about it, that is the catalyst. What is the lesson?
Could be anything.
I've found that when I didn't say it right away, I regret it, fear always gets there and makes me think oh I wonder what she would think about me if I told her.. and then I regret it and end up telling them way after I'm over it. I failed the fear test.... in choosing between fear and love.. it is always a difficult thing, especially when it hits close to home or rather our own egos.
You might learn in the future she's totally not your type and is shallow, or you don't get along, or lots of crazy things could happen. Is she sleeping as far as the world goes? Does she know how you feel about her? How well do you know each other?
Maybe you should just yell it at her, get it off your chest. Stare fear in the face and go... hey this is me. this is who i am and this is what i feel.
... Or you can say nothing and find a reason to define it later. Either way as long as your thinking about it, that is the catalyst. What is the lesson?
Could be anything.
I've found that when I didn't say it right away, I regret it, fear always gets there and makes me think oh I wonder what she would think about me if I told her.. and then I regret it and end up telling them way after I'm over it. I failed the fear test.... in choosing between fear and love.. it is always a difficult thing, especially when it hits close to home or rather our own egos.