11-05-2011, 12:59 PM
LOL. That's because "you are a loser".
The movie sounds funny, but not accurate. The people that would say "you're a loser" would also turn to their friend and say "I feel guilty".
In my ideal, you see, the listener would not take it personally because the words wouldn't hold that weight. It would mean the same thing, and they wouldn't suspect that it is because I don't care.
Actually, in the world we do live in, we know more about where people are coming from than we let on. That's what the "spirit" is. I know the spirit with which you wrote the entire post. You know the spirit of mine as well.
It's kinda similar to the debate between Jay Z and Oprah. He says using the "N word" desensitizes it and deflates all the negative "power" out of it. Oprah says it should forever represent that era and never be heard again. I like his take, to be honest.
The movie sounds funny, but not accurate. The people that would say "you're a loser" would also turn to their friend and say "I feel guilty".
Quote:"I'm such a stupid loser and 3dmonkey hates me so much that he's willing to just call me fucking stupid right to my face. He cares about me so little that he's just willing to stomp all over my feelings and beliefs."
What hurts people is often not even the content of the message, but just the fact that the lack of tact communicates that 3dmonkey didn't care about them enough to use tact.
In my ideal, you see, the listener would not take it personally because the words wouldn't hold that weight. It would mean the same thing, and they wouldn't suspect that it is because I don't care.
Actually, in the world we do live in, we know more about where people are coming from than we let on. That's what the "spirit" is. I know the spirit with which you wrote the entire post. You know the spirit of mine as well.
It's kinda similar to the debate between Jay Z and Oprah. He says using the "N word" desensitizes it and deflates all the negative "power" out of it. Oprah says it should forever represent that era and never be heard again. I like his take, to be honest.