10-09-2009, 04:28 AM
How to act in the sack it your own choice obviously..
But it seems to me that you can't perform tantra on your own. If your hubby isn't part of the experience or has different motivations in the moment. Then the whole energy flow is not going to be tantric, it'll just be frustrating. To him and to you. Clashing ego's hidden hurts, that sort of thing. And as A guy I understand his position.
I don't believe in renunciation. I really don't. But if you do, then perhaps you can strike a deal with him? One session his way, one your way...
If you're not into Tantra then sex without orgasm is a very frustrating experience to a man. Also I'm not an expert as you might have figured out
But isn't withholding an orgasm just one of the zillions of things they do? Isn't there something in the repertoire that would be good for him too?
I don't know synchronized breathing maybe or simple energy exercises. Massage?
But if you can't get him on your team I doubt the exercises will work and it will just be an empty clash of ego's.
But it seems to me that you can't perform tantra on your own. If your hubby isn't part of the experience or has different motivations in the moment. Then the whole energy flow is not going to be tantric, it'll just be frustrating. To him and to you. Clashing ego's hidden hurts, that sort of thing. And as A guy I understand his position.
I don't believe in renunciation. I really don't. But if you do, then perhaps you can strike a deal with him? One session his way, one your way...
If you're not into Tantra then sex without orgasm is a very frustrating experience to a man. Also I'm not an expert as you might have figured out
But isn't withholding an orgasm just one of the zillions of things they do? Isn't there something in the repertoire that would be good for him too?I don't know synchronized breathing maybe or simple energy exercises. Massage?
But if you can't get him on your team I doubt the exercises will work and it will just be an empty clash of ego's.